<p>1) definitely ask the kids about the recs; by now, since the admission season is over, they can get copies of them</p>
<p>2) Um, why do you think you shouldn’t get involved? unless the GC has made it clear that he/she doesn’t want you involved, why not?</p>
<p>3) Do not worry about the GC seeing the comment; it is the GC’s job to write glowing recs for all their students and most, if not all, seek out the positives in all kids for their recs…teachers, on the other hand, are not evaluated/examined based on how their students do in the college admissions process…most write very positive recs; but you never know with a teacher…</p>
<p>Honestly, if you really don’t want to be involved with the GC (which is fine) have your son email her and ask her the question…</p>