Would you tell your crush that you had a crush on him/her?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Edit: Title should say have not had.</p>

<p>Yes?
No?</p>

<p>Why yes?
Why no?</p>

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<p>Yeah. I’ve got nothing to lose, so i might as well just go up to her and say, “Guess what, lucky hoe. you’re my crush. Wanna go out?” :]] ahahah.</p>

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<p>Haha nice way of putting it :b</p>

<p>I don’t…ever…</p>

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<p>Yup. I did.
4 years ago.
Because I felt as though I had nothing to lose and I really liked him.
Our four year anniversary is in 3 weeks :).</p>

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<p>^Congrats! :)</p>

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<p>Thanks!
Just goes to show you need to take a chance whenever possible :). </p>

<p>Trust me - you will ALWAYS regret the things you didn’t do much more than the things you did do.</p>

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<p>I actually never have, and this is one of my biggest problems. If I am crushing on a guy who I go to school with but would never have the guts to talk to, I continue to lust from afar and I don’t do anything about it. I don’t want to be deemed a creeper or a stalker, haha.</p>

<p>If I’m friends with them and I like them, I’ll usually tell them so only if I am reasonably confident that they like me back. But this doesn’t happen very often. </p>

<p>I wish I had the guts to get to know the guys I admire from afar better =/</p>

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<p>^^ The only sticky part is going through all your classes post-rejection.</p>

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<p>You don’t know you’re going to get rejected.
But there’s 100% possibility of it never happening if neither of you talk to one another lol.</p>

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<p>You can’t assume rejection, because then you’re just an unconfident loser. You’ll be all nervous and probably won’t make a good impression if and when you tell them.</p>

<p>I’ve never told someone flat out that I “like them.” It’s usually pretty easy for girls to figure out on their own, I think. There are certain things that us guys do that imply “I like you” that don’t involve actually saying “i like you.” Much easier route.</p>

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<p>Orly? Do divulge.</p>

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<p>^^I thought that resulted in being ‘friended’. Idk, I’m ignorant.</p>

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<p>Friend zone For the lose</p>

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<p>No, I’m too shy and a wuss :(</p>

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<p>^same way too, but I will tell her someday. Someday.</p>

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<p>Haha, someday will turn to never. Just kidding. :P</p>

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<p>Nahhh. Most of my crushes are insignificant - fickle flights of fancy.
There’s really no point because I wouldn’t commit to a relationship. I crush merely to be able to swoon over someone once hormones kick in.</p>

<p>I think that if you really like someone or are completely infatuated, then you should lay on some very strong signals if nothing else. If there’s no response, then you get the idea without having an outright rejection. In which case, you can pretend like it never even happened.</p>

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<p>I don’t until it’s too late to do it. So I just don’t. :o</p>

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<p>I’ve told one person I liked them, ever, and that didn’t turn out too well. (Unless you count the time when I was 7, which didn’t turn out well either.) So I’m slowly trying to rebuild my confidence.</p>

<p>…it would help if I liked someone right now.</p>

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<p>I don’t see a good reason why not to. Fear of rejection isn’t a good reason because either way nothing will happen. As this is CC I will pose the analogy your dream school sends your descision, now do you not open it fearing that you will be rejected? No, of course not!</p>