Yep, and this is why I havenât weighed in
Iâll just say that we have never been too worried about which schools our kids attend, though there are circumstances where we would be (primarily social/safety).
They VERY creatively redrew the boundaries in our neighborhood to send the kids from the fancy houses to the rich kid school, and the apartment kids to the poor school. The gerrymandering was clear as day.
Our house is disproportionately pricier than our nearby neighborsâ (was built much later). Our kids attended the poorest elementary school in our town, which we considered a feature, not a bug, when we bought our house. Our school district is very good in general.
We decided when they were very young that they would be fine as the children of 2 science professors, and that we werenât going to sweat it much. We were considering whether or not to try to fast-track our eldest even more than he already was (his bday would have forced him into the next grade in our current town). Okay, so he goes +2 math (with all the transportation woes), takes BC calc junior year, and then what? Who cares? We decided against it and everything has been more than fine.
He complained about being bored in school a decent amount and that was a chance for us to teach him some good lessons about life. Like how to not be arrogant.
Having a lot of different course options available to high schoolers is good, and Iâm grateful for it. I actually like how our school district does things â it could be a lot worse. We managed to talk our freshman out of honors algebra II for next year. He was relieved that it wouldnât affect his ability to take calculus. (Though I question the utility of offering both an algebra II regular and algebra II honors class). The school can offer flexibility because theyâre pretty wealthy. One of my kids has disabilities and an IEP and his special ed teachers are absolute gems. We need more of them.
Lots of good points made in this thread, and I can see all the sides of the issues. But the fact is that my kids are going to be a-ok in just about any school. Iâm much more worried about many of their classmates. I am happy for resources that are devoted to helping kids who need it the most, even at the expense of my own children (who are and will be fine with a somewhat smaller slice of the resource pie).
ETA: itâs not a coincidence that all the kids in the super secret +2 math program are professorsâ kids