<p>huh?? i'm confused....</p>
<p>Middle School: In seventh grade, I went out with this high schooler. There was a three and a half years difference between us (and no it's not statory rape unless it is sexual). That lasted for about a year. He broke up with me for no good reason, in the fall of eighth grade. There were still sparks there. The distance made our relationship stronger, and also my parents are very strict, they wouldn't let me visit him or go out on even a chaperoned date with him. Even after we broke up, we still acted like boyfriend and girlfriend (and no, it was not friends with benefits). </p>
<p>Lots of the girls didn't like me, so they went out of their way to discourage guys from asking me out at my middle school. In the spring of eigth grade, I went out with this guy for one month, but he had his friend go and break up with me. So, to teach him a lesson, I went out with his best friend (his best friend knew about the plan). His best friend, decided that he liked me, so we went out for real. That lasted for only two months. He cheated on me, in plain view. It was disgusting (will not go into details with that.)</p>
<p>High School: After our failed relationships, I realized that "the sixteen year old" couldn't be replaced, and he realized that he mad a big mistake. He slowly tried to gain my forgiveness, and he succeeded. In the fall of freshmen year, I got back together with the "sixteen year old", who is now in college. We have been together ever since.</p>
<p>Jerseyco05 said: You'll eventually find someone. It usually happens at the most unexpected times.</p>
<p>I absolutely agree with Jerseyco05. Before I met the guy that I'm with; I thought I was ugly, and many things wrong with me. I met this guy at my cousin's sixteenth b-day party. I wasn't expecting to meet anyone, but I'm glad I met him. We took it slow; we started off as friends, and then progressed into a relationship. It took us time to realize that we were/are perfect for one another (even though we are very different in some ways). We still continue to grow with one another year after year. Someday you'll find someone that you are comfortable with.</p>
<p>woah--i've never gone out with a guy that was more than 2 years older than me. i've only dated a few guys that were a grade older than me. that's it. other than that i don't usually like ppl that are older than me...</p>
<p>My boyfriend is 20, I'm 17. It sounds bad but it's definitely not like that.</p>
<p>Yeah, there is a three and half...almost four year difference between my boyfriend and I. But, it's definently not like that; even though I don't care if people think it's "bad".</p>
<p>For some odd reason, I've always been attracted to guys older than me. </p>
<p>To Jerseyco05: How did you deal with people not accepting your relationship with your boyfriend?</p>
<p>Everyone is really chill with it because they know him and know me. They find it odd that like he is working for a record company and concert venue while I'm top 5% of my class but there are the occasional few who say things. Usually we just ignore it and they eventually see that we are happy. My mom is not a huge fan of him but that's more because of his work and education, not his age.</p>
<p>OK, here goes. I never had a real boyfriend until high school (middle school crushes, you know the routine). He was two years older than me and I had met him through our hs's theater department, he was always the lead in shows and stuff. I liked him for about a year even though I figured I would never have a chance with him, but then we became friends, and eventually he ended up asking me out to his senior prom. Freakin rocked, btw. Then he went off to college in MAINE, of all places, and it was just too painful never being able to see him, not being there for one another, etc. I'm sorry to say that I'm the one that broke it off, but our relationship was going nowhere and I didn't want to make him think things were all right when they weren't. So that's that. Oh yeah, and now he has a new girlfriend that is studying abroad in Germany. Good luck with that. Lol</p>
<p>Sooo, since then I have had guys like me on and off, been on a few dates (one with one of my ex's friends after our breakup, BIG mistake). I'm just not really interested in anyone else right now. If the right guy came along then sure, I might reconsider it. But I come from a really small hs (under 400 kids), so this is the way I see it. I'm not going to lower my standards to accomodate the guys in my school. That sounds kinda harsh, but I have a great group of friends and a million other things to worry about besides finding a guy. That's what college is for. Plus, if I'm ever feeling desparate, I'll just find a guy at a party. Haha, haven't we all been there.</p>
<p>all the girls in my class are dying to date me!!!</p>
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<p>ROFL! Even though its largely stereotypical and not that true, that's still really good.</p>
<p>As for my 'romantic life.' What romantic life? <em>looks around</em></p>
<p>Zero to Hero would be the best way to describe it:</p>
<p>Middle School-Ninth Grade</p>
<p>Classic dork. I was always reading and had little to none social life. I was treated like ****. Very depressing time, almost commited suicide twice. </p>
<p>10th Grade</p>
<p>Not sure what started the turn around but I gained a lot of conifidence. It really helped that I realized that there was other people like me, extremely eccentric, my music taste and people who cared about the world. It also helped that my times in swim dropped massively and suddenly I was a major swimmer. With this confidence for the first time I started talking with girls.</p>
<p>11th Grade</p>
<p>Finally got my first grilfreind and first kiss. She was a real loser and soon we split. However soon I developed a crush on another girl and she was and still is friggin amazing. Three days ago was our one year. Most people really started to like me because I opened up and it turns out I have a good sence of humor. My freind convinced me to be a Rally Commissonar and we actually one. It really helped that no one else wanted to run hehe. </p>
<p>12th Grade</p>
<p>My freind and I are very good Rally Commissonars. For the first time in a long time people at our school are actually enjoying Rallies. Other schools even send their Rally Commissonars to watch our Rallies. As a consequence of this Im Mr. Popular now. I was Homecoming King. The very same people who made fun of me, bullied me around and such now want to be my freinds. Girls now love me, but I still stay with the chick that liked me when no one else does. **** them. </p>
<p>When I look back on my High School days I have no regrets. When I was younger I was able to pull myself out of depression and after that, any challenge seems very small. Nowdays I enjoy the fact that people like me, but instead of taking it to heart I can remember who I am and who my true freinds are. I have been able to enjoy all parts of High School, it has been an amazing journey.</p>
<p>I'm kind of going through that same thing. The very same people who made fun of me back in middle school, now want to be my friends now. I was Homecoming Duchess for my class, this year. The King and Queen slot is only reserved for the seniors.</p>
<p>Eh - the real people stay singles. ;)</p>
<p>Isaac Newton, Nikola Nesla, Rosalind Franklin, Ralph Nader (yes Democrats go kill me, I am a Nader supporter). Hopefully, I will too.</p>
<p>"The path to virginity (or something like that) is not through struggling with incontinent thoughts, but rather, through meditation, reading of some sorts, or something else". _Isaac Newton. I forgot much of the quote.</p>
<p>You forgot the most important one of them all....Jesus Christ</p>
<p>ok I've waited to tell this long story for a while so why not give it a go eh?</p>
<p>Ok. I have been with my handsom, sweet, funny, loveable boy/man for 10 montsh feb 1st. (his name is Eric). </p>
<p>I met Eric through a friend of ours. You see, i went to school with this boy (Bart, who is our friend) from k-2nd grade. During that time Bart had a huge crush on me. bart switched from a public school to a private catholic school without telling anyone.. so i assumed he moved away. Well one day when i was working out at the YMCA (well walking on the track that is) Bart recognized me because of my eyes and started talkin to me. He confessed of his crush on me and we exchanged numbers. Now Bart is very friend oriented so our first date was taking eric (who's also called splooge, spoon-no reason really) to get his brakes fixed on his new bmw he bought. Bart only called Eric "Spoon" so naturally I didnt know his name. All i knew was he was a major hottie. He raced 4-wheelers, was about 5'10, brown hair, blue eyes that turned to green, and about 157 lbs. He was/is HOTT lemme tell ya. so anyways, bart and I went on a few more dates and I started considering hooking my best friend (Jenica) up with eric but as bart and I talked, we realized we didnt like eachother more than friends so i then tried to hook bart and jenica up. I had Eric meet me at the YMCA and i got in his car and drove around with him for about 2 hrs. our conversation was great, he was a big sweet heart who surprisedly never had a true "girlfriend" in high school. So i went to his house on a thurs. which happened to be the night before he left for spring break which also happened to be April fools. Well to my surprise he was interested in me.. we had our first kiss that night and before i left, i was joking around with him about spring break. i was telling him that "ur girlfriend would be so upset if some other girl jumped up on you and started kissin on you."- I was so surpised that I just refered to myself as his gf. so i appologized. he said "well, you wanna be?" and of course.. being the sucker that i am i obviously said yes and so here we are, commin up on our 10 mth aniv. He really is a great guy. I know we are still young but there's really not much to jepordize our relationship as both of us are around beautiful people but have no interest in them at all, we will be goin to a local college in a city that we both practically grew up in and we honestly do not want to or can imagine being with anyone else. So we'll see what happens eh? The lord's will.</p>
<p>Im surprised i didnt meet him before because my sis had a crush on his brother <em>which our siblings are about 9 yrs older than us</em>, my brother hung out with his brother once in a while, he lived 3 min. from my old house most my life, and he went to my elementary school for his lisp <em>which he does not have anymore.</em> i dunno... maybe i was meant to know him?!</p>
<p>sorry for the long post.</p>
<p>~Shelly~</p>
<p>how does somebody get a romantic life?!??!?!??!!</p>
<p>^beats me, heh
myself
Elementary - Nonexistant (ewww, girls?)
Middle School - Nonexistant (too lazy/shy)
High School - Nonexistant (too busy/shy)</p>
<p>"Life passes most people by when they're busy making grand plans for it"...Blow</p>
<p>im 16 my girlfriend is 2
My friends going out with a fetus
I love this thread .........hahahahah</p>
<p>I am have a girlfriend three years older than me!</p>
<p>I wish I had a serious rrelationship with a girl....</p>