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<p>@AHSTeacher, you said that finances were a major concern, so we naturally started talking about admission to schools where a middle-class family could get really significant FA. Those happen to be the most selective schools. The kids who are realistic candidates for those schools have better stats than this kid, similar ECs, and have had no problem developing their “human-ness” at the same time. That’s the reality. The kid I know best needed a full ride. He had 2300+ SAT, matching SATIIs, placed first–not fifth–in the state in two–not one–national foreign language exams, was a 3-season varsity athlete, and played in the regional youth symphony, all-state, various audition-based programs. And had 5s on 5 core AP exams and 4s on two more.</p>
<p>I fully agree that there are many paths for kids, and that’s great. I don’t think anyone was suggesting that this kid isn’t a great kid, or that he has to get into one of the true meets-needs schools to have a great college experience and a fulfilling life.</p>
<p>From what you’ve said, I would suggest that he apply to the University of Iowa. I assume they have an honors program, and that he would be able to get into it. On everything else, his parents are going to have to run NPCs. Anyone who needs money should cast a wide net. It would be good if he broadened his search.</p>