@lookingforward
I’m going to skip over a lot of what you said because I understand it and have noted it moving forward-- thank you.
I wouldn’t exactly call me an empathy admit. I have to really rethink my story if that’s how I am presenting myself. I think that my extracurriculars will be different, but I don’t think they will be full of excuses. It’s about how I lived in my environment. Sure, I could have gone into the city and done a long internship, but I am not going to do that because it would require too much of my family. Instead, I have become really involved in my own community and have thought of more ECs to list (similar to the dock, if you remember). I want to make my application really centered on my life over the past six years and demonstrate my character traits through life at the lake and growing up with an especially giving family. I can’t list medals or awards or clubs, but I won’t make excuses for any of it because I am not that kind of person. That extremely involved academic person isn’t who I am. If that means I can’t go to any top college, I can accept that. I will try my best to stretch myself within an environment that is possible for me and my family.
What I am hoping for is one or two adcoms to see my ECs and want me on their campus. You say that they (adcoms) have seen it all in regards to applicants. But I was saying how there are not enough applicants like me to make a valid prediction about my future-- not that I am a one in a billion applicant.
To clarify, I don’t think that comparing me to a typical student is exactly helpful. I took six years to finish high school, I am purely online, I had no supervision/help, I live in a village in Canada where there might be one other family around on any given day, I don’t have awards and medals but rather community-based actions throughout my life, I will have an essay/story that will be different as any other person, and I
I don’t think I am a great applicant. I don’t expect to get into any school better than, say, ASU. I just want to try because I know there is a chance some adcoms will like my story. With such a unique application, why not just wait and see what happens?
I have to be honest with you, I don’t really understand what the ‘big deal’ is here. As I mentioned before, I am happy wherever I go-- as long as I find a good fit for me. I’m not worried about where I end up, but I thought I would try to apply to some great schools as my family has the money and I have the stats to be considered. I don’t have enough time to really change my application, so what are you trying to accomplish here? I don’t mean to sound rude-- please don’t interpret this as hostile as it is not my intention. I am just trying to figure out what I have to do here. It seems like every conversation is telling me about a normal applicant will be better than me, to which I respond with a case of “sure, but there might be a chance for such a unique applicant that nobody can know.”
You are insinuating that my list isn’t good for me. I’m quite surprised as I absolutely love my list. Could you go a bit more in depth here? I haven’t been doing college research for 3.5 years-- I’m not even a year into it. I don’t know anyone in my life going to college, nobody I have ever known has gone to college in the states, my admissions counselor is pretty hands-off despite my attempts, and I don’t really know how to do this. I’ve done a lot of google searches on what schools on my list are looking for, often to find that I fit those characterizations. Then, I have made a lot of college threads on this forum to get a more personal touch, resulting in a lot of changes in my list.
I would really appreciate some help on how to do something rather than just being told that I am doing something wrong. I don’t know how to do this stuff and I don’t know how to figure it out. I figured that a college forum full of people with tons of experience would be a good place to start.
I love all the curriculums on the school on my list, most of them have a campus that I really enjoy, the people at all of these schools would be people that I would fit in with, the states are all places that I could live in for 4 years, the distance from home is all acceptable, the programs are all extremely intriguing, and the cost is all fine. So, I think it comes down to how well I match them. I searched every school and tried to find what they want and followed them all on social media to get a better understanding. I really don’t know what to do