<p>Thanks for all that suggestions. I will try my best. To be honest, I am super shy guy. I don't know how I am going to deal with it then. How should I behave when I come to her house ?</p>
<p>behave like you would normally (i hope you are nice to her normally!)</p>
<p>Ask her what color ribbon will match her dress, maybe it will start a conversation about the boutiniere. You need to know that anyway and then tell the florist you want something really nice and they can usually advise you as to some choices.</p>
<p>wait--did the name of this thread change??</p>
<p>No.</p>
<p>@ivanadoeslimbo: I am trying to be nice with her. I buy her lunches, pay her ticket for the field trip. There is one thing I am so rude to her now: I DON'T TALK TO HER. </p>
<p>@momkaes: I know her dress color already. It's coral. I got a coral vest and bowtie too. We talked about the corsage on Wednesday. She said she would like yellow. Thus, I got her yellow roses.</p>
<p>Do you guys thinks a corsage with 3 roses and some baby whatever(I don't know how to spell it, the little white flowers one) will be enough or too simple ?</p>
<p>How should I talk about he boutonniere ? I don't want to make her feel like she has to buy it. I don't really care about boutonniere or not. I just want her to have a good evening.</p>
<p>Can you guys give me some more suggestions ?</p>
<p>Just ask, "Are we doing the whole corsage and boutonniere thing? (Don't wait for her to answer) I think it would be cool to..."</p>
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What should I do to make her feel special ?
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Say she looks nice, etc. Don't overdo it though. You'll come off as creepy. Also, compliment her dress/earrings/basically something she chose. Be polite get the door, pull out her chair for her, etc.</p>
<p>Most importantly... DANCE with her.</p>
<p>seriously, the corsage and boutonniere thing is overrated. I wondered a bit when i bought my date a corsage if she would get a boutonniere too. It ended up that she didn't, and it wasn't awkward at all. Nobody at my school really cares at all about any of that cause its all just a formality.</p>
<p>So what should I do about the boutonniere problem ?</p>
<p>Some people said she would buy it, some people said I should buy it. I am totally confused</p>
<p>So what should I do about the boutonniere problem ?</p>
<p>Some people said she would buy it, some people said I should buy it. I am totally confused</p>
<p>^^^
Guys buy the corsage.
Girls buy the boutonniere.</p>
<p>How do you know if she is buying you a boutonniere? You ask her.</p>
<p>You need to take a deep breath. Prom isn't that important... It's totally what you make of it. So instead of driving yourself crazy about it, just ask her. If she got you a boutineer, she'll tell you. </p>
<p>Don't worry about acting special on prom night; just be yourself. Dance with her, be nice to her, and by all means calm down.</p>
<p>Thanks for all of the suggestion.</p>
<p>I feel so awkward asking her since I don't want to make her feel that she has to buy it.</p>
<p>So then offer to buy it. Say something like, "I ordered your corsage from the flower shop the other day. Do you want me to order my butineer as well so they match?" That way if she already has ordered it, or is planning to, she will tell you.</p>
<p>So glad we don't do proms like this.</p>
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Yeah, haha a guy got my stepsister a corsage, and she didn't get him a boutonniere. I suggest no matter how awkward it is, to just ask her if she's getting you one. Text her or something. It'll take off the pressure. It's better to sound like an idiot now than to look like an idiot later.
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Qfe</p>
<p>10 char.</p>
<p>3 roses and baby's breath is perfectly fine.
don't buy your own boutenneire. that's weird...
just ask her discreetly if you want to. like..."what color bouteneire are you getting? i got a yellow corsage in case you wanted to match..." or what sammielue said is fine too. </p>
<p>tell her she looks good but don't be creepy about it.</p>
<p>be a gentleman, be polite</p>
<p>ask her to dance!! but make sure she is comfortable (i.e. no hands everywhere if she's the modest type)</p>
<p>be polite to the parentals if you meet them.</p>
<p>TALK TO HER.</p>