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<p>Good for him! My S is like that too. If he goes through the system and finds guys he likes and clicks with, he wouldn’t care in the least if they were a “top” house or not. My D is less like that, which is why it’s just as well she’s going to a place without a Greek system (as Consolation well knows :-)) … though that is not to say that general insecurities can’t be had in any setting, Greek or not.</p>