<p>Personally, I have no idea how I feel. I am Middle Eastern, and my family has gone through many hardships. My parents even had to watch the Soviet Union kill their brothers. My father fought in the Afghan-Soviet War for seven years. Lives in my family are still threatened because some of them are politically active. I live in the US, and I have been kept from going to school every once in awhile because my life was threatened. My mom had to deal with losing her job, her entire way of life, everything she loved, and leaving the one country she ever loved. She lost 5 of her 6 brothers and her father. My parents have gone through so much, and they have never once asked for help.</p>
<p>So, when I see some of my friends who supposedly benefit from AA, such as a friend who is Hispanic or African-American, I have mixed feelings.</p>
<p>Some of them have not experienced the hardships my family has. I have been discriminated against, but, living in S.CA, some of them have not. Some have had what would be considered "easier" lives in terms of the outside world. I understand that, for instance, slavery was a huge issue in the US for a ridiculously long time, but I hardly ever see my African-American friends feel anything about it. They seem like they don't even care that it happened to their ancestors. Others, however, have experienced hardships largely due to their race. I have friends who went through hell to come to the US, legally or otherwise. </p>
<p>And I don't understand the argument that it is done for a more diverse student body. I guess, to me, I feel that that is absolutely ridiculous. I just don't understand why race matters -ANYWHERE. Why does it matter in life? Why should it matter? Cultural differences are always a great thing because you learn more, but different races does not guarantee cultural diversity (which, if anything, is what should be aimed for).</p>
<p>I guess it is too much to ask for that colleges aim for that or for intellectual diversity or something...Too many applicants. You can't meet all of them. & it is difficult to keep track of or to even measure. I don't know >_></p>
<p>And why do people get so upset over it? I don't understand that either. You didn't get rejected from XXX school because you are XXX race. And you didn't get accepted that way either. We don't even know how much colleges care about it (albeit, I'm sure it varies from campus to campus). Maybe they put very little emphasis on it, maybe a lot. We have no idea. And, let's remember, that the college employs them. A college is basically a business. Who are we to say how they should be running their businesses? The government has restrictions on businesses explaining that they shouldn't discriminate between genders, races, etc. Yet, just because it is a non-profit company, it doesn't have to follow the rules?</p>
<p>It doesn't make sense to me, but in a way it does. I don't know.</p>
<p>What's your opinion? And, please, take the time to explain why YOU feel that way (personal experience?)</p>