<p>deecee,</p>
<p>If a large part of your self-esteem is wrapped up in your grades, then Wellesley might not be the right fit. The professors like to teach students those who are there for the love of the subject and/or interest in learning for learning’s sake. I know it sounds hokey, but it’s true. Granted, there will always be those students who are wrapped up in their grades, but I think the goal is if you were one of those people in high school, try and not to be like that in college.</p>
<p>You say that you’d get disappointed in yourself when you got Bs. I’d say be prepared for Bs (and maybe even worse) at Wellesley, especially your first semester/year as you adjust to college work. I think I’ve posted this story before somewhere, but I remember getting my first chem exam back with a C-. Flick Coleman was my professor (now retired… so sad!) and that exam was take home, open book. I had never had anything like that before and assumed that the exam would just cover the material gone over in class. So I blocked out, I think, around 4 hours the night before it was due to do it. Huge mistake!! Flick’s exam was so not about regurgitating the material. It was about taking the material and applying it in new situations and problems not necessarily covered in class - totally unlike anything I had been asked to do in a science class before. It asked me to really really know the material, in and out, not just memorization. So that C- was a wake up call: we’re not in high school anymore. I had gone to a magnet public with a science and tech emphasis so this wasn’t my first science experience. I think I ended up with a B+ in the class, which I was totally happy with because I worked my butt off in that class and learned lots.</p>
<p>Basically, you shouldn’t think that putting in a lot of effort/time will automatically equal an A. It’s not about quantity of the work you do, it’s about the quality. So you’re right, there are no easy As. The grading policy changed while I was a student (I’m dating myself now) and it was so that professors could accurately distinguish the really top students who deserved As, the next level of students with A-s, etc. etc. If you think about it, the grading policy is still a bit skewed if a B+ is supposed to be average, but that’s my opinion.</p>
<p>I remember talking with my HoH (now called RD = Residence Directors) and her saying that a lot of her time with first year students was spent counseling/advising those who would come to Wellesley, be shocked that they were no longer the smartest or brightest, and had trouble coping. Or they’re struggling to adjust academically and think they’ve made a mistake coming to Wellesley. Come on! It’s Wellesley! Of course it’ll be more challenging than high school! The profs have higher expectations! I totally had to adjust my study habits because what I could get away with in high school did not cut it at Wellesley.</p>
<p>I’m not trying to be an alarmist. I think just about everyone has that period of adjusting their first year, especially as people are coming from high schools with varying levels of difficulty. By sophomore year, it all evens out.</p>
<p>And don’t worry about grad school. I remember reading something some years back where the school did research like 5 yrs after they implemented the grading policy and found no difference in grad school/med school/law school/etc. acceptances - both in percentage and the types of schools - from what they were before the change.</p>
<p>good luck.</p>