<p>I recently got academically dismissed from a private institution. Since then ive been really depressed and lacking hope. I loved that school and when my appeal was denied I hit rock bottom. The thought of going to community college for a semester is really not what i want to do. I'm just so discouraged about it all. My mom still doesn't know about it. I told her I want to work and go to cc to save money for next semester. I tried everything in my power to get credit to be readmitte but everything failed. I feel like a failure, I'm lost, depressed and I just don't know how to deal with it all. The though of missing out on everything really hurts. Words of encouragement anyone?</p>
<p>You’re not the first kid to flunk out of school. Was it due to partying and/or socializing or was it just that you were unprepared for the rigor? If the reason for your dismissal was the latter, well, that’s a tougher situation to deal with but I will say that both instances have to do with maturity. My advice is to find something to fill the time(like full-time employment) and start thinking about goals and what is important to you. If you’re just looking to have a good time while you’re young you can work, take classes part-time AND still have time for a social life. Granted, it might not be with the students you’ve grown fond of but you’ll find your niche, mature and move on. Hang in there!!!</p>
<p>Tell your mom! You will feel better having her advice, even if you have to weather a bit of shock and disappointemnt in the beginning. She wants what is best for you, and can help you decide if CC or work will best help you get back on track.</p>
<p>This is a hurdle in the road, but not the end–you are young will have many opportunities ahead. Try to pinpoint why and how you came to be dismissed; make a plan to change your previous habits, and set new reachable goals. Good luck.</p>