A few years ago, my kid applied to the business schools at about 10 largish state universities…Michigan State, Alabama, Nebraska, Florida State, Kentucky, West Virginia, etc. Not Ivy caliber, but all respectable schools with proud alumni, where if you do well in your business classes you will probably get a decent job.
Several things surprised me:
Few of them required any letters of recommendation at all. Their web sites often explicitly said, “We do not consider letters of recommendation.”
How easy these colleges were to get into. Kid got no rejections or wait lists. The student-age population has dropped in recent years, so only a small % of colleges can afford to reject applicants with records like your daughter’s (top 11%).
How loosey-goosey the application process is at some schools. Two name-brand universities accepted the kid and awarded serious merit scholarships even though the applications weren’t completed.
Given that information, & other posters’ comments about how unimportant LORs are at most colleges, I’d say your daughter’s concerns about them are unfounded…
…unless she’s truly fixated on prestige, in which case the ap process is indeed more brutal.
But, it is not too late to rid her of this obsession. I’ve lived all over the U.S., & from what I’ve seen, the college-prestige virus exists mostly in the Northeast, coastal CA, and in swanky suburbs in Flyover Country.
In most other places, college is seen as a means to getting a job & a place to throw parties, not a source of prestige. In other words, there are millions of people who are perfectly happy to go to Western Michigan, South Florida, or Northern Colorado…people for whom even sub-flagships like Michigan State, Florida State, & Colorado State offer way more prestige than is necessary. If you can get your daughter to see how happy & serious students are at some less-than-elite colleges (e.g., Iowa, Alabama, Pittsburgh), perhaps she will be able to oversome the prestige virus.