<p>OK, so I’m a half-white/half-Chinese Princeton student, so I can’t say a lot, but:</p>
<p>1) I have never heard anyone make a comment / suggest that they perceive someone differently due to affirmative action policies. Mind you, I HAVE heard such comments in relation to myself from people at home. (Said people are apparently not aware that being Asian doesn’t exactly count as an “minority” in the Ivies.) I have heard people make comments about athletes of all races, because athlete admits here have demonstrably lower GPAs. Meh.</p>
<p>People here tend to assume that if you got into Princeton, you’re smart, and they leave it at that. That attitude–that assumption–is one of the things I like best about this place. I know it’s not the same thing, but for example: sometimes in a geeky environment I feel very aware of being female in a way that makes me feel like I need to prove something; that doesn’t happen to me here. (I’m a COS major.)</p>
<p>2) Self-segregation: honestly, it happens sometimes. I think it happens everywhere. It happened in my high school, too. But…I don’t know why. I would like to think that at Princeton it’s not because of any hostile attitudes, exclusion, etc, since I’ve never seen evidence of such things here. As a white kid I’m not really entitled to comment, though. I see self-segregation happening more amongst Asians than any other group, honestly. I think it’s caused largely by a tendency to associate with similar people. But I have friends of all races here, so…I don’t think it’s a huge issue?</p>
<p>At Princeton, I’ve seen self-segregation manifest mainly in 1) ethnically/racially-divided student groups (aka the “Asian Christian group”), which I don’t think is a bad thing, and 2) sometimes people have more friends of their own race than friends of other races, which is also not necessarily a bad thing. I haven’t seen any dramatic divides amongst the student body.</p>
<p>At any rate, I really don’t think you should have to worry about exclusion, and I’d advise you not to stress about it, but I’m no expert on the topic. You’d be best served by asking an African-American Princetonian, I guess.</p>