<p>So I've been at college for about 2 1/2 weeks now, and I'm starting to like it more and more. At first it was really hard because I had trouble meeting people, but now I have a nice little group and we party and we're chill. Problem is, now I'm starting to get socially lazy. I'm naturally reserved, so it takes effort for me to converse with people I haven't known for very long. I don't make that effort anymore. I don't really talk. At all. And I think that makes people think I have serious problems. I don't mean to be cold or mean; if they would just talk to me first I'd be more than happy to chat. I like people. But starting conversations is not my thing. Does this make me bad, or mean, or unfriendly?</p>
<p>not really. it makes you more shy....</p>
<p>no. I'm kinda like that. I can't start conversations. Sometimes I wish I could join in with people having a lively chat but it's hard to. The people who walk up to me to talk usually talk about things I have no interest in. So now people think I'm weird because I sit and study instead of socializing.</p>
<p>Ditto schrizto</p>