Bad behavior?

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<p>First off, I would like to talk about my personality, it seems that I have a disgusting behavior but when I look at myself I don't see any thing wrong so I'd like your honest opinion.</p>

<p>This is what friends and family call me, and it's been in the past 6 months and I know I changed but I feel that it's thier fault...</p>

<p>***hole, Weird, Retarded, Random, Strange, Annoying, Grumpy, Lazy...Around those attitudes</p>

<p>Usually when I argue with a friend I feel like they are so dumb and that every time I argue I am right and I will use the most off topic arguements with make them wrong...I can't remember an example but I'm sure you know what I mean...I might understand I'm wrong, but there's always something linked to that person to make them wrong.</p>

<p>At school, I say things you'd hear in Family and every one laughs...last week a friend of mine said why are you so random...I say that's the point to make them laugh, and he said they're laughing at you not with you...for example...my teacher asks who took over rome and I answer back Elephant!...am I weird and random?</p>

<p>After work I feel like my family has to go by my rules and I can throw things every where because I had a long day at work...and that I can be as mean as I want because I had to work.</p>

<p>I've always though of myself as a mellow nice guy...and every one I meet says im so nice but half of them had said your so weird and some how get annoyed around me...I've noticed I have no friends after all? If I wanted to go out right now I would have no one what so ever to go out with.</p>

<p>I need your honest opinion and advice so I can know what I'm really like before college starts...I need some friends!</p>

<p>P.S. no one knows about this but when I find out some thing benefitial I don't like to tell any one so they won't do the same...Like a jack***! But I've changed I don't do it as much....like when I was younger and my friend asked what my favorite shows where I would make up common one's I didn't like so he wouldn't watch them as well...I'd even go as far as run to my computer to change my favorite desktop so they would not see it.(but I'm like that with bigger things now like jobs, homework, etc)</p>

<p>You can call my the devil if you need to because I really want to know to change, how should I?</p>

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<p>Oh and recently I was in a group project and I'm like okay you guys are lucky to have me I have a future I'm the best...just as a joke, and I can see that they see it as a joke because they say Shut up! but I think they really get annoyed by it and that's why I have no friends.</p>

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<p>From what you've described, everything your friends and family have said is spot-on.</p>

<p>You need to work on every one of those qualities you listed and improve the social skills. Just remember what people have told you and whenever you interact with someone, try to fix whatever behavioral flaws people have mentioned.</p>

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<p>My teacher once told me this. If a person finds something wrong with you then theres a possibilty that person just envys or admires you but if its everybody around you that lets you know of that flaw then it is YOU!</p>

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<p>you're basically a D-bag and need to change the way you act around others, and learn to respect yourself and the people around you.</p>