<p>To add to MsAlex's response...</p>
<p>Yes, testing is expensive, but worth it...to see your child receive the accommodations he/she needs and is entitled to. In our area, $2,000+ is the norm.</p>
<p>To respectfully clarify MsAlex's final statement: "That is not only an offensive stance, but it is discriminatory against ANY (not just gifted) persons with learning disabilities, and that is against the law (if they accept federal funds).</p>
<p>To SOMEMOM -- We've experienced similar problems with accommodations for our moderate IQ, fairly high achieving (because he really has to work at it with lots of support), slow processing speed, LD/ADD child. Schools wouldn't even write up a 504 (oh, it's just a gentleman's agreement anyhow, they'd say), and College Board wouldn't grant extended time (like Dx has always said he needed; College Board said that despite the very slow processing speed, his high ahievement compensated and gave him an overall score commenserate with his IQ...oh, duh, now that's recognizing hard work and commitment to task...no wonder so many young people are discouraged by the educational system). So, the course we chose to take was to quit banging our heads against the impossible (more fruitless appeals and more upset for our son who'd see them fail and more SAT testing...enough is enough) and instead to very carefully select the colleges to which DS would apply. We're picking the colleges that have solid disabilities programs, but just in case DS still doesn't meet their criteria, we're making sure too that those same colleges offer solid support to all their students. We call it the double safety net plan. Also, while we've been told that DS's cognitive ability (IQ) is probably a lot higher than can be measured by IQ testing and that with robust accommodations he could probably achieve that higher level, we've opted instead to aim lower...to work with the hand he's been dealt (namely scores) and have him apply to only strong matches and safeties. This way, we hope he'll be accepted into a solid, small LAC with good support services, a heart for its students, with my DS on the high end of the curve under the worst of his scores. That to us sounded like a good way to ensure his academic safety, build his skills and self-esteem, keep him relaxed and happy, and prepare him whatever course he choses post grad.</p>
<p>Lots of luck. Don't give up. Go with your gut feelings about what's most important to your child. In our case, we wanted college to be a warm, inviting, happy, and safe experience. I believe it's so much more difficult for children like ours to leave home, and so much more difficult for us as parents to let go and entrust them to an unknown, and sometimes unfriendly, system.</p>