<p>^ eh. I think prom is inheritly romantic, but thats just my opinion.</p>
<p>It has that expectation, but you don’t have to make it so. I know a bunch of people who’ve been to prom as just friends, with absolutely no romantic overtone</p>
<p>If you ask her as friends, maybe. Then again, if a guy I hardly knew asked me, I would not say yes. Depends on your definition of “hardly know.”</p>
<p>Thanks everyone, can always count on CC for advice haha. </p>
<p>Honestly, I pretty much knew that most of you would say ask her. But it still just feels weird. Idk what I’m going to do in the end. I mean like today, I said one thing to her (teasing her) she laughed a few times, and that was that. The problem is all these douchbags in my classes that are all over her with dumb **** that she feels like she has to laugh at. I hate it. </p>
<p>Anyway, no decision yet. ugh.</p>
<p>ASK!! AND QUICKLY!!! </p>
<p>If you already know others will ask her, and since you don’t know her very well, your best bet is to ask her before others do. I remember my friend last year who had these 3 random guys ask her to Prom. She had never talked to them before, but she just said yes to the first guy who asked. It doesn’t hurt to ask, and it won’t ruin your friendship since you guys were never close anyways. BUT you should have a backup, or someone you know would go with you.</p>
<p>Yeah, I’m leaning towards asking, I just need to figure out the right time and place because she’s usually with her friends during school and has a sport right after school. </p>
<p>I’m just worried because our school is really small (like 105 in my senior class) and everyone will obviously know pretty quickly when I ask her, haha. </p>
<p>Again, thanks for all the advice guys, and more is always welcome!!</p>
<p>wow 105 in the class? Shouldn’t you know everyone by now lol?</p>
<p>105 people? Wow! We have around 500 in each grade at our school.</p>
<p>I too would say ask her, but I know where you’re reluctant…well, at least from a girl’s point of view. But the way I look at it, if you ask her casually, it’ll be fine. She’ll be more comfortable saying yes/no if you ask her casually, and you’ll feel better about it too. Since you’re not really close to her, if you were to do a huge romantic gesture, she might feel more uncomfortable about giving a response. At least, that’s how I felt when someone asked me to a dance. Ultimately though, it depends on what you feel is right. Trust your instincts! (And think about how she’d react).</p>
<p>But if you do decide to ask, do it quick! Maybe ask her to talk after a class or something really quick, alone. That’ll make it casual too.</p>
<p>Anyways, that’s just my advice. Good luck!</p>
<p>olleger, </p>
<p>I do know pretty much everyone…but some people I’ve straight up never had a class with, and she is one of them; she’s also not like connected at all to any of my close friends. I think she’s pretty shy in general. Yeah, it’s so weird how 4 years have gone by, and I had not had a single class w/ her till now…great timing haha.</p>
<p>Anyway, thanks pink, that’s helpful. Part of me thinks that she’d just say yes because we get along and she’s nice. But the other part of me is saying that she’ll be like…“why would I want to go with you?” not in a mean way, but just like…why. Haha. </p>
<p>A HUGE reason that is pushing me to ask her is that I think I will regret it in the future…“what ifs” are a killer…</p>
<p>You should ask her.</p>
<p>So there’s this girl I like and she is a sophomore and I’m a junior I haven’t talked to her in months but I was pretty good friends with her. Prom is coming up in 3 weeks and I want to ask her to prom. Is it weird if I ask her?</p>
<p>She’ll definitely be surprised but I don’t think it will be too weird.</p>
<p>get to know her more first</p>
<p>doooooooooooooooooooo it</p>
<p>Just ask her! If you two don’t go as dates, you can still go as friends/acquaintances! (:</p>
<p>TLDR; man up.</p>