Some of what I am looking for is probably not of interest to you, because it it tailored to my daughter in particular, but most of the info in this thread would apply to you I think. There is a ton of helpful info in this thread. Also middle class, also 1500 miles away from most target schools. She has a couple of other very important considerations, but among her considerations is wanting to study in a place where she is surrounded by like minded kids who care about their classes.