<p>LMAO I'm being a junior year. LOL Girl, do you have AIM? X] We can chat. Ha ha you seemed to be like me. X] I bet we have a lot of things in common. xP</p>
<p>i'll also say that my guy friend, gay friend, whatever he was..we used to see romantic comedies together..and chick flicks..all that stuff..we went shopping..and did all sorts of things..
it is really very sad.</p>
<p>ya he likes everwood for godsakes..he always talks about..omg he wrote on his xanga once somegirl and some guy had sex..and he's like relieve...he's the feminine type..but he has no guy friends and i've never seen him check one out..if neone i'm sure i would've seen him..i really don't think he's gay..he has no guy figure in the house..lives with his aunt and mom</p>
<p>=[ Poor Moni. [huggles] ^_^ Hey you two I got to go cuz bro wants to use the comp. >////. I'll talk to you two tomorrow. x]]]] See ya!</p>
<p>see, i watch everwood.. this guy is just me with a *****. dont go for it.. hes MUCH MORE VALUABLE as a friend. and he doesnt have to check out guys to be gay.. hes trying to hide it after all. and the guy figure thing means he def gay.</p>
<p>lol...he's not really much into shopping..he's not one of those pretty boy american eagle..abercrombie and fitch type although i like shopping..for gosh sakes i'm a girl</p>
<p>im just trying to help you out... trust me.</p>
<p>ya thanks for being honest..i'm leaning toward that conclusion that he's gay..but i say i just play hard to get and if he does like me it'll show</p>
<p>in the mean time i'm not goin to worry about if he likes me then he'll come along</p>
<p>well, thats a good plan. dont think about him like that ..</p>
<p>just because he has a sensitive side, doesn't mean that he's gay. If he truly is, then what's hindering him from coming out?</p>
<p>probably the fact that he hasn't ever had a relationship..i know how it is..it's awkward..there is this guy that likes me..and i just can't be affectionate unlike some girls, who are just so agressive go around hugging any guy they see</p>
<p>yeah heard this story many times before. he's probably gay. so what? dont bother trying to get a relationship going. i'd say 10% chance it worked, 90% it doesnt. you dont want to lose a friendship by trying relationship. this is from someone who lost many good friends this way</p>
<p>haha ya i know you have this one good friend..you start to like them..you ask them out and they once you break up/get together it's all awkward</p>
<p>maybe i'm being an optimist here, but he seems like an introvert who's not comfortable with relationships. perhaps he doesn't like the "obligations", such as public display of affection. </p>
<p>if he is gay, then why doesn't he say so? what's prohibiting him from telling people, especially his best friend, what his sexuality is?</p>
<p>Have you ever considered that he just wants to keep the friendship you guys have going??? If I had a valuable friendship with a female that I cherished for a long period of time, there's no way I would let a silly relationship/fling and a couple of long make-out sessions ruin it. A relationship may bring both of you enjoyment for a month or so but a friendship can last a lifetime.</p>
<p>But what the hell am I saying, no guy actually thinks like this because all that men want is action, right Moni??? :mad:</p>
<p>lololol man<em>on</em>fire you must be gay!!1</p>
<p>agh i hate when people jump to conclusions like that. but yeah i agree with man<em>on</em>fire, you can't just dismiss your friend's actions like that. keep the friendship going strong, maybe he'll gradually open up towards a relationship. you can't force him into it or anything, only if he's good to go will it be a successful one.</p>
<p>well, most people don't want to come out of the closet, because then they'll get made fun of... they don't know how people will react. </p>
<p>And i'm sorry, kids, but Im just going from personal experience.. I lost my best friend because I wanted him...and he turned out gay..and we were never friends again.. He was almost exactly the same as this guy shes talking about. Friendships are not worth breaking because you think you like someone...and in this situation, I just think he's gay. so keep the gay friend who is too afraid to come out of the closet.. or, of course, you can be his catalyst.. but you will still prob ruin the friendship.</p>
<p>I dont know if ya'll are gay..I'd need more info... :)</p>
<p>Wow your like my "gay" friend...always on cc..he's obsessed..but then again I am now too. Of course I never told him this screename. He's likely to eventually find out though..i've posted tons of threads already.</p>
<p>yep... told you i was his twin..</p>