<p>I've known this guy for two years now. We are literally like always together and always hang out. I told him that I liked him, but he was like I don't like you. The problem with this guy is he is kind of shy. He's never had a girlfriend before and I've never had a boyfriend before. He always asks me to go places with him, we talk alot, he blushes whenever anyone mentions how we are always together, and seems to get nervous when he's around me. I talked with him later in the year and I asked him why he didn't want a relationship..and he gave me this gay answer I just wanna live my life. I later told him about how this guy liked me and how I've never had a boyfriend so it's weird and all to be affectionate. He said ya same with me I've never had a girlfriend so I wouldn't know what to do. People think he's gay..but I think he's just waiting to come out of his shell as some of my friends say.
Any advice..</p>
<p>OH MY GOSH!!! Im sorry, but I was in the EXACT same situation..well, I guess he kinda liked me, but the whole gay thing was still the same.. we had known each other for 5 years, best friends for 2.. and i started to like him.. so i brought it up. we went out and promised it wouldnt ruin the friendship but it TOTALLY did.. please please please dont ruin the friendship you have with him by trying to go out with him.. chances are, he prob is gay (as it looks to have turned out for me). I was heartbroken and crushed for months after he broke up with me, because I lost my boyfriend and best friend.. honestly, its not worth it.</p>
<p>Some people just aren't into the whole relationship thing...</p>
<p>I have no idea if he's gay. He keeps denying it. He once pretended to like someone just so they wouldn't think he was gay. He's just so weird.</p>
<p>im telling you..same situation here.. hes like, "i like girls, i swear!" well, why hasnt he had a girlfriend yet? well, because he likes boys.</p>
<p>i had a similar situation, it's better if you stay as friends.</p>
<p>thank you for agreeing..</p>
<p>although its all storybook romance that ya'll get together, its not gonna happen like that..</p>
<p>ya, but i'm like that too..haven't had a boyfriend..but i'm not gay just always wanted to focus on my school work..., but I feel as if he's the one</p>
<p>Heh just because someone is not ready for relationship doesn't make them gay or lesibian seriously. The reason he doesn't want is because he wants to take it slow. =] He doesn't want the both of you to get hurt which is understandable. Just take it slow and see what happens. =]</p>
<p>thanks for the advice</p>
<p>you guys are forgetting that this a boy!
boys want some action. there is not a straight boy i know who hasnt had or doesnt hungrily crave action. even if he's religious or something.. he still wants it, he just knows how to control it. you cant think that boys are like us and that they 'must just be focusing on schoolwork' or something else.. no boy is too busy to get busy. if there was some serious issue in his life (parents just died, etc) then I can see him not being into a relationship....but from what youve said.. i think hes prob gay.</p>
<p>Im really not trying to be like, a horrible dream-destroyer, im just trying to tell you from experience.</p>
<p>I think I would have kissed him. He needs a little nudge.</p>
<p>If he's gay, and you kissed him. I'm sure he'll eventually tell you. Haha.</p>
<p>well he's like melinda is a nymph (beautiful goddess)..u know from real world austin... that does some a little exageratted doesn't it as if he's gay</p>
<p>LMAO Moni. XD So let me see, I'm a girl. =] That doesn't have a boyfriend some odd reason. Never been ask. Does that make me a lesibian? Even though I'm not busy or focus on schoolwork?</p>
<p>no, SNEAKiiE.. girls are different.. cause girls ARE all about feelings..and needing the right boy to ask her out at the right time. you could grow some balls (excuse my language..lol) and just ask a boy out..but most girls dont do that..so thats why there are lots of girls in your situation (who arent lesbians).. I, on the other hand, grew some balls.</p>
<p>and also from experience, all the questionably gay girls i knew came out like, years ago.</p>
<p>he said tht out of nowhere..while we were chatting..and he's always going like thats sexy to me when we chat and stuff..i don't know, but when i kid i'm usually telling the truth..and go i'm just kidding afterward, but i really mean it..any of ya'll like that..i think alot of people are like that</p>
<p>LMAO. Nah I don't wait for guys ask me either or I ask them. I just don't feel like having a relationship. I know it's odd. oo;;; Ha ha ha grow some balls! LMAO Moni! x]</p>
<p>its true..</p>
<p>anyways, he's gay.. he said "nymph"? GAY</p>
<p>i'll use a quote from my father..that he said when i got dumped..(by the homo) "All signs point to gay."</p>
<p>ya sneakie i was always like that..i'm going into my junior year and haven't had a boyfriend for a day in my life!! Gah, but this guy friend..he's always on my mind! I've tried to move on, but I always end up thinking about him. GRR</p>
<p>Ha ha ha. Nymph is okay, Moni. Even the girl from Austin said it herself or was it the other girl from Philly. x] I sometimes thought Marc Anthony, JLO's hubby, is gay. =[ Oh well. x]]] Question for Scientist, is your best guy friend a femme type or a masculinity type. x]. o.O Does he like chick flicks? x]]]]</p>