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Along the lines of “it only takes one”. Although the odds of making it in this business are “one in a million” - when you are the one, it is 100%. But what does it mean to “make it”? Is a Broadway lead the only measure of success? My husband and I tell our two creative kids to not focus on fame or “making it”. And so their only goals are to be working artists. “Full heart, full belly”. This is how our family arrived collectively at that singular vision.
Years ago I met a Broadway actor with 50 yrs of “success”. When introducing him to my daughter, I asked for his advice to a young person pursuing the arts. Without hesitation, he replied with wisdom for BOTH child and parent.
He said (paraphrased) - “I didn’t have a plan B. My parents were my safety net. They believed in me wholeheartedly and were there to catch me if it didn’t work out. We agreed it was only at a disappointing endpoint that we’d reassess and redirect. I was young and had time to pursue what I loved first. If we started the journey thinking it wouldn’t be successful, it wouldn’t be. Pour everything into your art, don’t be distracted by fear. It will derail you. If later the path leads elsewhere, you’ll be richer for the experiences you’ve had”.
Wow! That changed everything. How we define success, how we no longer have a plan B. The plan is to be a working artist; period. And that doesn’t necessarily mean Broadway. It means using their creativity to be fulfilled. That might be performing on stage, writing scripts, directing musicals, producing special events, giving voice lessons, being a jack-of-all trades at a local theatre, or writing newspaper reviews for the local arts scene.
If my daughter adds an English or Psychology major to the mix - it will be because she’s interested in the topic and it will enhance her artistic journey. Never will it be added only as an alternative path.
And one last thought - experiencing art and creating art is a shared privilege. John Adams reminds me of this…paraphrased:
Our grandfathers were soldiers,
So our father could be farmers,
So we could be artists.
Original quote here : http://quotes.liberty-tree.ca/quote_blog/John.Adams.Quote.0CAD