<p>Three seniors? Hmm not good imo. idk, I don’t think any senior would take a freshman seriously. “Freshmen = Freshmeat”</p>
<p>And at leila, I think it’s because guys are intimidated. Pssh, hopefully they’ll get more mature one day.</p>
<p>arrogance? I’m just saying it could be possible…</p>
<p>I don’t think the guys are falling for it? they know she’s being stupid but they’re getting cleavage…</p>
<p>Meadow&TCBH…y’all are just making me lose hope…</p>
<p>what about juniors?</p>
<p>The key to any relationship: the woman makes the man delicious sandwiches and the man does man things like go to the gym and watch 300.</p>
<p>But really, who doesn’t love a delicious sandwich? (male or female)</p>
<p>" I think it’s because guys are intimidated. Pssh, hopefully they’ll get more mature one day."</p>
<p>Oh excuse me here, I’m a guy also. At least we don’t go around practicing our secret rituals to make other girls jealous, which vice-versa, girls intend to do on guys. At least we’re not the ones who can’t distinguish on looking for a best girl, which girls are concerned about a guy’s physical status and less on intelligence.</p>
<p>make other girls jealous?..that’s horrible…</p>
<p>He was a boy,
She was a girl,
Could it get any more obvious?</p>
<p>^ Re-read my last two lines before the sentence ended. That’s not what I wrote.</p>
<p>Trumpet girl.</p>
<p>OK, since everyone’s putting their problems out there, here’s mine:</p>
<p>My girlfriend broke up with me about a week and a half ago. Now I don’t know what to do. I’m in no way over it (although I’m back to functional, it still kills me to see her and know that she’s not mine). I could go on and on about how great things were (or at least I thought). We were the perfect couple, both the type of people who are just good at life, we were dating because we liked each other’s friendship, not attraction…etc. </p>
<p>I don’t know whether to let her go. I want to wait, but somebody told me that I shouldn’t- she’s sure it’s what she wants. When I talked to her about the breakup (she didn’t really give me a reason initially) she still wasn’t really opening up and telling me what’s going on. So I don’t know what the score is, and I don’t really have a way to find out without her knowing that I am.</p>
<p>In short, I still care about her a lot (like no one else I’ve ever cared about) and I want her back. I just don’t know if that possible, and if it’s not, I don’t want to be the guy that could never let go. End of story.</p>
<p>Girl’s trying to make other girls jealous is kind of pointless imo; I’m pretty sure guys can see straight through that so I don’t partake in that sort of behaviour. Umm seriously physical status? idk what that means, but I personally find intelligence to be the most important factor. Kind of an insular opinion, but w/e. I mean you can’t carry on a proper relationship with a dumb guy, unless it’s solely physical. But the guy should always be slightly less intelligent, otherwise difficulties will ensue.</p>
<p>Awww, you need to get out there and find someone new. How long were y’all together?</p>
<p>"But the guy should always be slightly less intelligent, otherwise difficulties will ensue. "
LOL, it’s hard to tell when people are being serious here.</p>
<p>" Girl’s trying to make other girls jealous is kind of pointless imo; I’m pretty sure guys can see straight through that so I don’t partake in that sort of behaviour. Umm seriously physical status? idk what that means, but I personally find intelligence to be the most important factor. Kind of an insular opinion, but w/e. I mean you can’t carry on a proper relationship with a dumb guy, unless it’s solely physical. But the guy should always be slightly less intelligent, otherwise difficulties will ensue. "</p>
<p>Not the case in my school.</p>
<p>^^I’m being pretty serious. Notice how I didn’t ask for a dumb guy. He just has to be comparatively dumber to me. Otherwise, men start developing superiority complexes and become controlling. Ugh.</p>
<p>^Oh well that’s just’s my take on it.</p>
<p>Me either. I hate it! My friends think I’m gonna start talking to a senior bc he’s CUTE.</p>
<p>1st of all, i disagree.
2nd of all, i barely know him.</p>
<p>^^I’ve heard guys prefer girls to be less intelligent so they don’t have to feel inferior. Which is why I was wondering if you were being serious :)</p>
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<p>I completely disagree. I don’t see what that must be true. </p>
<p>I think it’s much more important that two people are on a similar intellectual level. Personally, it’s really important to me to have someone who also likes school and does well and enjoys discussing “intellectual” topics, But I don’t think it would work (in many cases) with the girl being much smarter than the guy. Most guys have to be better (in whatever it may be) than their girlfriend. I don’t know why, but it just has to be that way. </p>
<p>I’ve had girls interested in me that were much less academically inclined than I, and that doesn’t work either. We would have completely different interests. Maybe it’s just me, but I really want someone who can go head to head with me in argument. </p>
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<p>From the time that it was sort of out there that she’s mine, about 6 months. And I hate to be a naysayer, but right now no one else will do. I’ve tried already to turn my interest to someone else to get over her, and it just doesn’t work. I can’t really see myself with anyone else.</p>
<p>Is everyone on this forum single? Hahaha that’s certainly the vibe I seem to be getting.</p>
<p>Idk what to say, hmm, you seem to be in love.</p>
<p>^haha i think so</p>
<p>NulliSecundus,</p>
<p>Lol… It’s similar to the story about losing your best friend who was like a brother to you and then you got over it.
I praisefully hope that you and her come back together.
If she doesn’t want to, might as well leave her alone. How are you doing in school? If you’re grades are wonderful, you may actually end up in a top university and forget about her.</p>