<p>good luck!! and your bf seems more like a controlling parent than a controlling bf. like i honestly have never heard of someone saying they’d break up with you if you drank/smoke. whatever the case, good luck and if he doesn’t do it, then you should do it.</p>
<p>I think you are doing a great job at handling the situation. Talking to him about his obbsessive behavior is the best bet. A break would also be a good idea, just to evaluate where you are at with yourself. This actually reminds me of a song by Chrisette Michelle, Blame It On Me. Hope everything works out for the best. =]</p>
<p>maybe just talk to him before you decide to do anything,
because you don’t know what he thinks about the situation,
you just know how it is on your side</p>
<p>if you end up breaking up, then yay,
but you might not have to,
once he knows how you feel about it all,
and once you know how he feels</p>
<p>Every time I see this thread title, I keep getting that damn Avril Lavigne song stuck in my head. </p>
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Whatever you do, don’t break up with him over IM.</p>
<p>Yeah I won’t, that would be *****y. I will just talk to him over IM, and what happens happens. I don’t want to in person, it would be a screaming match… I hate those. I am being such a baby…</p>
<p>Yeah Mr Sudden is onto something, if you give him one, then YOU can control him as oppossed to the other way around…</p>
<p>No that’s a bad idea…for you at least. </p>
<p>Break up, if he’s talking about getting married in High School, then that’s just strange</p>
<p>How about start drinking so he will break up with you? Also, I would break up with a girl if she went from being a non-smoker to a moderate/heavy smoker :).</p>
<p>oh lordy. um, just say your parents don’t like him or something? or accuse him of cheating on you?</p>