<p>So, my girlfriend and I have really been heating up over the past year, but we are both going to different states for college and I think we both think that it must end at the end of the summer. I do not really want it to end and this is the strongest I have ever felt about someone else. Nonetheless, realistically, it probably must. However, we have been separated for the past month and a half for spring break and athletic events and projects. It seems to me that this would be the best time to end it. I know that if we come back home (in a couple days) and stay together throughout the next four months that our feelings will be more passionate than ever and the inevitable breakup will be devastating. I feel like a month and half of separation is already a big chunk of the pain that goes along with breaking up, so maybe ending it right when I first see her is best. Thoughts?</p>
<p>You don’t HAVE to break up. You can always give it a shot. If it doesn’t work out, then it doesn’t work out, but you’ll never wonder “what if?”</p>
<p>aw, nobody wants to be broken up with right when they get back home after a month and a half of missing that person. have you guys ever talked about long distance? and how far apart are your colleges?</p>
<p>They are a few states apart and we haven’t, but mainly we both know that long distance never works and, frankly, is probably not healthy.</p>