<p>I will give you an example of D’s ED situation, so you can see what it took. (I will not name the schools.)</p>
<p>Schools for ED1 and ED2 are absolutely D’s top picks. They are nearly identical, very selective for nearly anyone, but D has a very good shot at both. Kids from her school have been accepted to both with her stats, some with even lower stats. ED2 school is a little more of a sure thing. ED1 school has always been near the top of her list, bouncing off occasionally, but it’s stayed there for a good 6 months, especially after we convinced her that a school she loved she’d have very little chance of getting in, as there is no advantage to ED there and her stats are just a little low. (She’ll take a flyer on RD, just to say she did, if we get to the RD round.)</p>
<p>ED2 was a late entry, but only because we’d never seen it until the last college tour. It was always paper possibility. She’d be very happy there. The thing that distinguish ED1 and ED2 are a.) ED1 offers a slightly more interesting surrounding area, and b.) If she reversed the order, she’d always wonder about the other school. If she is rejected ED1, she has no problem submitting to ED2 and going there. The only dilemma will be if the gets deferred. That is very unlikely in her case, as there’s nothing left to prove in her academic record, so she’s likely in or out. (In other words, ED1 deferral is the nightmare scenario.)</p>
<p>No other schools other than these two are “perfect” in her eyes. Any other school would be a compromise in one way or another, but she will learn to live with that if she has to go there. Cost is not an issue, and unless some rare merit aid shows up from the RD schools, will not factor, as it’s practically non-existent. We’ve visited ED1 several times, done the interviews at both, looked into the surrounding areas, talked with alumni, etc. </p>
<p>In short, I can’t think of anything we didn’t do. We’ve tried to find flaws or reasons not to go to these schools, and we can’t. They’ve passed the stress test. That’s what you should do to pick ED schools. Or at least that’s what we did.</p>