Bullying Really Gets To Me

<p>Bullying has always gotten to me and always get it every year. When someone bullies me, I slack off on my work, and feel really depressed. I did tell a teacher before and they acted on it, but those bullies just kept on laughing at my even more.</p>

<p>I go to a catholic school and there is no way I can transfer.</p>

<p>I have no idea how to deal with bullying because I personally have no been bullied.</p>

<p>I dunno…I guess some self-reflection might do good:
do you “ask” to be bullied?
do you always fight/talk back?
do you have friends that will back you up?
did you **** off the bully at one time that caused him to bully you?
talk to your counselor?
talk to your parents?
talk to your friends?
as far-fetched as this sounds, maybe become friends with bully?</p>

<p>And pray. =)</p>

<p>Good luck man.</p>

<p>^Those are all good questions. I would personally just ask the bully what their problem with you is. If that isn’t enough then just talk to a teacher. I had to do that…I had to actually go through counseling sessions with this person(my friend oddly) at my school…not fun to say the least. Although I did get out of classes haha</p>

<p>Hell, I would bully you.
All you do is whine and it is really annoying.</p>

<p>^Who are you talking to? lol
She isn’t whining haha</p>

<p>Perhaps look at his post history.</p>

<p>Umm…my computer blocked that and then took me to some article about how a guy got ripped…somehow I can’t imagine the OP looking like that lol</p>

<p>Sorry about that LMAO. But really, look!</p>

<p>Haha, I did:) I think she’s ok:> I complain a lot on here too to be honest. Ex: PSAT thread. Ya…I failed that lol</p>

<p>But you don’t make 4875395473834875474547538 threads about it. =)</p>

<p>just be ridiculously nice to everyone ,
and it’ll make the bullies look like slimy oozing scum</p>

<p>^That works too lol</p>

<p>People actually get bullied?</p>

<p>Yes, usually at larger public schools:/</p>

<p>just find other kids who get bullied and hang with them, you could have your own crew</p>

<p>Hmm I can’t imagine why anyone would bully you…</p>

<p>Aww they laugh at you? :frowning: (<–empathizing)</p>

<p>Suggestion: Find your own band of losers and bond by whining together!..that way you could spare the rest of us.</p>

<p>^Ouch meadow, that was kind of harsh lol
I don’t know, I have some friends(me included) that have been bullied at one point or another(not in high school though(for me)) and I don’t think we are losers:/ Some people in high school are just jerks and take it out on other people.</p>

<p>I’ve never seen any bullying just for the hell of it. People usually just leave the losers alone and don’t associate with them.</p>

<p>I’ve never been bullied before, but if I was, I’d just act like it didn’t bother me and wait for them to get bored. The fact that it obviously affects you is what keeps them doing it; therefore just ignore them.</p>

<p>And not to be rude or anything… but there’s really no reason that getting bullied should cause you to do worse in school. If anything it’d improve your grades.</p>

<p>To Loonlake: What if they laugh at me about my grades? Saying that I have no life for having so high grades, when I’m not even in the top 15% of my class?</p>