<p>Bullying has always gotten to me and always get it every year. When someone bullies me, I slack off on my work, and feel really depressed. I did tell a teacher before and they acted on it, but those bullies just kept on laughing at my even more.</p>
<p>I go to a catholic school and there is no way I can transfer.</p>
<p>I have no idea how to deal with bullying because I personally have no been bullied.</p>
<p>I dunno…I guess some self-reflection might do good:
do you “ask” to be bullied?
do you always fight/talk back?
do you have friends that will back you up?
did you **** off the bully at one time that caused him to bully you?
talk to your counselor?
talk to your parents?
talk to your friends?
as far-fetched as this sounds, maybe become friends with bully?</p>
<p>^Those are all good questions. I would personally just ask the bully what their problem with you is. If that isn’t enough then just talk to a teacher. I had to do that…I had to actually go through counseling sessions with this person(my friend oddly) at my school…not fun to say the least. Although I did get out of classes haha</p>
<p>^Ouch meadow, that was kind of harsh lol
I don’t know, I have some friends(me included) that have been bullied at one point or another(not in high school though(for me)) and I don’t think we are losers:/ Some people in high school are just jerks and take it out on other people.</p>
<p>I’ve never been bullied before, but if I was, I’d just act like it didn’t bother me and wait for them to get bored. The fact that it obviously affects you is what keeps them doing it; therefore just ignore them.</p>
<p>And not to be rude or anything… but there’s really no reason that getting bullied should cause you to do worse in school. If anything it’d improve your grades.</p>
<p>To Loonlake: What if they laugh at me about my grades? Saying that I have no life for having so high grades, when I’m not even in the top 15% of my class?</p>