<p>Steven, In another one of your threads, (<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-admissions/551679-i-really-need-some-help-application-process.html%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-admissions/551679-i-really-need-some-help-application-process.html</a>) I just gave you some links for websites that have information to help you identify the colleges that offer financial aid to international students. I also sent you a private message with some additional advice. </p>
<p>I agree, however, with what the other wise moms have told you here: it makes little sense to apply to colleges that you can not afford if they do not offer financial aid for international students. There are very, very few "free rides" at U.S. colleges, even for U.S. citizens, and especially for international students. Competition for the few that exist is typically very intense. I wish that our government provided free college educations to our citizens, but most students in the U.S. have to pay something towards their educations. </p>
<p>My advice is this: be sure to sit down with your parents and dicuss exactly how much your family is able and willing to contribute to your education in the U.S. BEFORE you start drawing up a list of colleges. Listen carefully to what your parents have to say, because you will need their financial support to study here.</p>
<p>Then, go to the OACAC link I gave in the thread above. Open the database for the handful of U.S. colleges that offer financial aid for international students, and look at the average financial aid packages given to international students at each school. Subtract that amount out from the cost of attendance, allowing extra for airfare. If it is way off of what your parents can contribute, or are WILLING to contribute, then you need to investigate carefully whether there are other sources of aid such as merit scholarships to make up the difference, and what the qualifications are for getting merit money.</p>
<p>However, it is also VERY important to understand the way financial aid is determined here in the U.S. for international students. It is done somewhat differently than it is for U.S. citizens, and as a result, many international students are disappointed when they receive their financial aid offers. </p>
<p>Colleges will ask you and your family to provide detailed information about your family's income, assets (the value of your house, bank accounts, even family jewelry), and other personal information about your financial situation. Colleges will use that information to determine how much THEY think your family should be able to pay. The number may not match up with what your family thinks they can pay, or what they are willing to pay, so those "average" awards in the OACAC database may be very different than what your family will actually end up being offered.</p>
<p>It's important to have these conversations with your family now, before you apply. I've worked with too many international students who hoped that somehow money would magically appear and make studying in the U.S. possible, even though their families were unable or unwilling to contribute. Make sure this doesn't happen to you, and also consider very, very carefully whether studying for four years in the U.S. is worth turning down a FREE college education in the Netherlands. You may be better off looking for opportunities to come to the U.S. as an exchange student for a year through a university in the Netherlands.</p>
<p>We're not trying to discourage you -- but it is important to consider all of the possibilities as you make decisions about your future. Good luck!</p>