I’m really interested in the Cal State schools, specifically San Francisco and San Diego. However, both these schools are dominated by California commuters - I need to live on campus there because I’m from NH. They both offer housing, but most students are commuters. Are these schools not going to be the right fit for me, or can I live on campus and make friends?
What is the percentage of students who live on campus? All the students who live on campus are going to want friends. Also what are the out of state tuition and room and board? Have you figured out how much traveling back and forth will be?
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I cannot speak for SFSU but although SDSU is a considered a commuter campus, a large portion of the students live within a few miles of campus giving it a less commuter atmosphere. My advice is get involved on campus and within the community to get that more traditional campus vibe. The best way to determine if either is a good fit is to visit if possible. As long as you are willing to put yourself out there, you should have no problem making friends. The majority of my son’s friends live farther than 4 hours away from San Diego.
Just an FYI, as an OOS student you will be full pay since the CSU’s offer no financial and be sure to include your transportation costs along with living in two very expensive cities.
I was a commuter at Cal State Northridge oh so many years ago (I didn’t even know they HAD a bit of on-campus housing - that’s how out of touch with that I was). Both my husband and D had/are having on-campus living experiences, and I am a little jealous. I made maybe one friend I kept in touch with after graduation. When you are off-campus, you go to classes, maybe go to the library, and then you go home. For on-campus students, school and the immediate surrounds ARE your home. I bet it will be easier for you to make friends living on campus than off. And, you will feel more connected to the school. Joining clubs and other social groups will be a lot easier if you are right there.
As a student at SDSU, I can attest to the fact that many students commute, but you won’t have a problem with finding people who don’t, especially if you live in the dorms. Although there will be less people around on the weekends, majority of the people in the dorms will still be there. It shouldn’t be an issue.
Personally, I love how quiet it gets on Saturday and Sunday. Perfect days to go to the gym, study, or even take the trolley down to downtown with friends. A great time to rest and reflect on the week.