<p>Thanks for all of the replies. I agree with most of the posts, and until being immersed in the real deal, I could have written some of them in the past. But now it’s showtime and it’s nice to get some different perspectives. </p>
<p>Here’s the thing, in order for her to get down to her safety, she’ll have to face a lot of rejection and heartbreak between now and March. I frankly don’t expect her to get rejected by many of her matches. Call me crazy, but I truly believe that it’s beneficial to have two safeties so that an affirmative choice can be made in April no matter what. I think that having to choose one school and reject another is in some sense a catharsis that would allow her to go forward with a positive outlook no matter what. </p>
<p>This question arose because we visited a small research university that we think is a safety yesterday and just sitting in the student union for lunch she got this vibe that she doesn’t know if she could be happy there. She didn’t dislike anything specific and couldn’t put her finger on what rubbed her the wrong way. After lunch, the information session and tour improved the situation but she’s trying to close the book on where to apply to focus on actually doing the applications. </p>
<p>She really wants to go to college with her academic peers and have an intense academic experience. She doesn’t think she would be truly happy at her safeties regardless; it seems futile to find safeties that she loves now and I don’t think it’s going to happen. I do think that she would learn to love her safety if that’s where she had to go. </p>
<p>She’s applying to Wisconsin when the application opens next week. That seems like a good safety and we had a great weekend in Madison when we visited two summers ago. We know of no cases where they reject applicants with her stats who apply in September. Their application is easy and straightforward. She should get admitted in October. </p>
<p>She’s then going to focus on two early action schools which are her two top choices. </p>
<p>I bounced the idea that if she didn’t like the school we visited yesterday, maybe she should just apply to Michigan as her second safety. She can’t see a huge difference between Michigan and Wisconsin and she knows she likes Wisconsin, especially State Street and the lake. She also doesn’t want to take time away from her EA applications to apply to Michigan unless she applies there instead of Wisconsin. The school she visited yesterday has a Jan 1 application deadline, so she would only complete the application if she doesn’t get into her EA schools. She doesn’t see the point of having two safeties that are so similar. She thinks that having a large and a medium sized safety would give her something to contrast if it came down to it. </p>
<p>Is the student body at Michigan really that much more intellectual that of Wisconsin? Is the Michigan Honors program so much different than the Wisconsin program. </p>
<p>Right now she’s leaning toward just dropping Michigan and focusing the other applications. I’m tending to agree. </p>
<p>Thanks again for the feedback.</p>