<p>It’s much, much easier for an ugly guy to land a hot girl than the other way around. If you’ve got a good personality/sense of humor/money etc. (depending on the girl) it’s possible. Girls tend to care about how well a guy takes care of himself, which is more than just how you naturally physically look. If you dress well, have good hygiene, and all of that you’ll be alright.</p>
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hah i’m short AND asian (not an unusual combo) and have dated plenty of attractive guys 
oh but i’m not a poor lardass so i guess i’ve gone one thing down :D</p>
<p>No, short asian GIRLS are fine. The guys have some trouble with the girls though. But let’s not open up that can of worms again.</p>
<p>“from my experience people are very superficial though”</p>
<p>yeah pleeeeeeease speak for yourself.</p>
<p>I guarantee looks are not your biggest problem, unless you have some sort of severe deformity.</p>
<p>Also, all the people saying smart guys end up popular and popular guys end up in jails are the beta males that suck.</p>
<p>um, this is mostly B.S.</p>
<p>looks are very important for guys. </p>
<p>Guys will perpetuate the myth that looks don’t matter until the end of time. Why? Because it’s a defense mechanism; a lot of men need to believe this to keep from giving up in life.</p>
<p>At 23, the popular guys from high school still date the hot girls. The nerds from high school date average to ugly girls. </p>
<p>Yeah, you can get certain types of girls with money. Getting girls through money isn’t the same thing…it can never offer the same feeling/self-esteem boost as having a woman who lusts after you. </p>
<p>Accepting that life isn’t fair is a very important part of growing up.</p>
<p>I would add that I include height as a component of looks for men, and yes it’s extremely important.</p>
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<p>Well, it is true. Whether people do it on purpose or not, the first impression that someone is going to have of you is probably going to be looks.</p>
<p>For example, I did a little experiment last year. I was in a ~200 person class where I didn’t really know anybody. Some days I’d dress relatively nice (polo/dress shirt, nice pants, etc.) and other days I’d dress more casual (t-shirt, jeans.) Nearly EVERY DAY that I dressed nice people would sit next to me when there were several open seats to choose from, and nearly EVERY DAY that I dressed casual the seats on either side of me wouldn’t get filled until late, if at all. So yeah, people can be pretty superficial, but they don’t usually let that dominate how they interact with other people, it’s often just a first impression type of thing.</p>
<p>just look at George Costanza…</p>
<p>chuy, that’s so trueeee, when I dress flyy I get mad attention versus last year when I didn’t dress fly. You also FEEL fly too =D</p>
<p>it’s very simple.</p>
<p>you just need as much swagger as i have.</p>
<p>also, it’s a good idea to treat women like people and have the nerve to seek instead of be sought.</p>
<p>You need to do this [YouTube</a> - Soulja boy turn my swagg on (real version)](<a href=“http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLNfMsS_hKc]YouTube”>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLNfMsS_hKc)</p>
<p>To become this [YouTube</a> - 50 Cent - P.I.M.P.: Snoop Dogg Remix](<a href=“http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9nsxKFqjFw]YouTube”>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9nsxKFqjFw)</p>
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<p>^^meant a white girlfriend</p>
<p>THE certain way to land a beautiful girl is to treat her like a lady, like gold, flowers, compliments, manners, door opening, the works…men like that are harder to come by these days…so looks may not matter as much as chivalry…</p>
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<p>Terrible advice. Girls do NOT want a guy who they perceive as a doormat, a.k.a “nice guys finish last”.</p>
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<p>I’m going to have to agree with the above poster. It seems like all the guys who are good looking don’t need to be that chivalrous since they already have options. And the guys who are willing to do that are the creepy guys.</p>
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<p>Wow, worst advice in this thread.</p>
<p>If you’re ugly, hot girls will only like you if you can supply them with alcohol, are tall, funny, and/or have lots of cash. It’s really shallow, but pretty much the truth. After all, they can discriminate the most. Chivalry does not help at all.</p>
<p>“I’m very handsome of course but I was just curious.”
lol, uh, sure…;)</p>
<p>now, in reference to:THE certain way to land a beautiful girl is to treat her like a lady, like gold, flowers, compliments, manners, door opening, the works…men like that are harder to come by these days…so looks may not matter as much as chivalry…</p>
<p>i love how guys try to guess the inner-most workings of a girl’s psyche by referencing general sayings [i.e. ‘nice guys finish last’]. wrong. & that most certainly is NOT the worst advice in this thread. look guys, there is a real art to chivalry. & no matter what a girl says, she DOES want a sweet guy. she may not even know it. BUT SHE DOES.</p>
<p>now, if you’re an ‘ugly’ guy, it’s probably not the best idea to dive into the chivalry thing right away, as you’ll come of creepy. [conversely, if you’re hot, u should do so]. there is a huge difference between being gentlemanly & being a doormat.</p>
<p>“If you’re ugly, hot girls will only like you if you can supply them with alcohol, are tall, funny, and/or have lots of cash.”
& this will work for what? two days? yeah…</p>
<p>get to know the girl. be a nice guy. don’t be a jerk. don’t be an idiot.
these are pretty much the ‘secrets’ to getting the girl, lol.</p>
<p>i just like how in shows the large guy always get the hot one. Such as still standing and King of Queens</p>
<p>Physical attractiveness has nothing to do with it, neither does intelligence. They both help, but it’s all about confidence.</p>
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Coming from a girl who will cheat on anyone she possibly can? Yes, of course a girl wants a sweet guy who won’t leave her for cheating on him.</p>
<p>…okay, then…</p>