<p>Contrary to what many people on here seem to believe, there are actually plenty of colleges in the south that a gay student could feel welcome at.
Urban areas tend to be more liberal, so while you might not feel as welcome out on the countryside, you could be plenty happy going to a college in a city. If you look at Texas for example, which is considered a very conservative state, many of the major cities are actually very liberal. Austin and Houston both had a Democratic majority at the last elections.
In addition to urban areas having more liberal tendencies, college campuses tend to be hubs of liberal ideas. There are actually very few colleges that tend to be conservative. Trust me, as a gay student myself I’ve done A LOT of research on the matter and have a pretty good idea of which schools would be good, and which wouldn’t. During my college search one thing that I found helpful was googling the specific school that I was looking at and then also typing in “College Confidential” and “Gay Friendly”, so if you were looking at Emory you would search “College confidential emory gay friendly” and get links like this: <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/emory-university/296385-gay-friendly.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/emory-university/296385-gay-friendly.html</a>
Someone else posted a link to Campus Climate, and while I think that CC is a good resource, it only accounts for resources by the school, and not student attitude, so if the school had an LGBTQ minor, but extremely ignorant and conservative students it would get points for that. So, overall just take that with a grain of salt.
When picking a gay-friendly college, another thing you have to do is define what you actually want. Do you want a large school where 50% of the guys are gay like NYU, or would you be happy with a school with a regular proportion of gay guys, but a perfectly accepting student body. When I approached this question I decided I just wanted to have a friendly student body, because really, how many other gay guys do you need? Most likely you would only have a romantic relationship with a few of them during your college years, so why would you need 2,000 of them? Also, even if you wanted to surround yourself with LGBT friends, you only need so many friends. So, here are my rules for making sure a college is LGBT friendly (only apply this after you’ve narrowed down your colleges.</p>
<p>1) If it’s a northern school it’s most likely fine.
2) If it is a religious school make sure that religion is not actually a big deal. Some schools like Emory have an official religion, but that doesn’t affect the students.
3) If it is a southern school, make sure it is liberal by searching CC.
4) If it has a large frat scene you may also want to check on CC if it’s gay friendly. Sorry to everyone in frats, but many of the “party guys” tend to be less progressive.</p>
<p>During my college search I was really interested in going to school in the south, since I hate the cold, so here’s what I found out about a lot of top schools in the south. Also, I just want to say first that although I’m going to say that some of them are conservative, or not the best environment, I think that unless it’s some kind of hub for homophobia like BYU it wouldn’t be the worst thing if you went there, only you might be slightly happier elsewhere.</p>
<p>Vanderbilt: Slightly more conservative than peers, but still pretty good. Is big on frats so while there probably wouldn’t be genuine hatred you might find some people who are just ignorant or rude. Overall it could be a good experience, but if you are really interested I would look into it more.
Emory: One of the most gay friendly colleges in the south. I’ve heard almost all good things about LGBT life there, and on top of that, it’s in Atlanta which is very gay friendly.
Rice: Is also very gay friendly, and has accepting students, although just because it’s a smaller school it has less gay students. (I’m applying here ED)
Tulane: Accepting school with some cases of ignorance
UMiami: Accepting school, some cases of ignorance, but it’s also near South Beach which I’ve heard is like a gay mecca. Apparently there are lots of gay guys here.
Georgetown: When I visited it seemed like a great place. It is a jesuit school but I’ve heard that they are tolerant of gays, just not abortion. I didn’t want to go here because I dislike religion, but I think gay students here would be fine.
Johns Hopkins: Pretty gay friendly
UT Austin: Pretty gay friendly (I think it was rated one of the most gay friendly colleges)
UVA: I’ve heard that this one might lean on the conservative side, I haven’t done much research on it, but I’d be cautious.
Washington and Lee: I’ve heard it’s conservative.
Duke: Gay friendly with a few conservative students
UNC: Pretty gay friendly</p>
<p>Ok, well I took a long time to type all my thoughts out I’ve done a lot of research on the topic of LGBT colleges, and I think I’ve looked through most of the threads on it on CC, so if you have any more questions feel free to PM me. All my knowledge on LGBT friendly colleges might as well help someone :p</p>
<p>Good Luck</p>