<p>Keep in mind that al6200 thinks that only the “top schools” are worth going to and has expressed in other threads that anything that is “public” is inherently over-rated, so please consider other people when deciding on safeties. You can also transfer into the top UC’s from regular colleges… Some community colleges offer strong courses that are good preparation for a four-year institution, but many of them are sub-par, so even if you can transfer your putting yourself at an academic disadvantage to your peers unless you went to one of the stronger community colleges that actually have some course rigor. You can go many places in life from schools other than the “top” schools. For example, U. Wisconsin is tied with Harvard for the number of graduates in top CEO positions, and a majority of top CEO’s are graduates of public schools. You should focus on finding a school that is a good fit and allows you to excel, not simply the most prestigious school. Keep in mind that large publics also have large alumni networks and connections.</p>
<p>As for your mom:</p>
<p>As has already been pointed out even people who apply and get into Harvard, Stanford, MIT, etc… apply to their state schools as safeties; let your mom know this. It doesn’t hurt you to apply to safeties as you can always choose not to go if you get into better schools. No one is guaranteed admission to top colleges and with a 3.4 GPA, weighted or not, your chances are really hurt at many of the schools your mom has listed simply because they have so many other applicants that have everything you have to offer and a higher GPA/higher other stats. Starting a non-profit is a nice hook, and your ACT is fairly strong, but your choice to forego taking your school’s toughest curriculum also hurts your chances at top schools.</p>
<p>I would also be hesitant for you even to consider UT-Austin a safety. With your stats and as a OOS applicant your chances of admission are iffy at best. I would say the same of places like Michigan, etc, but especially of UT, which has to take, by law, all of Texas top 10% applicants which leaves little room for OOS people. Because of this, UT is not a safety school for you.</p>
<p>Many of the other schools listed hear (Georgtown, WashU, Pomona, Calremont, Notre Dame, etc) are fairly significant reaches for you. You can apply to places that that if those are schools that interest you, but they are not matches. It was stated above that you can apply to all the UC’s with one application so I would apply to all UC’s that interest you and at least one of the less competitive ones as a safety. Unlike others, I do not think UCLA is a high match for you, it is likely a reach. </p>
<p>Your mother is living in lala land and you should not let her ignorance prevent you from applying to schools you like and that are good fits for you. It is perfectly acceptable to apply to some reach schools, and if you like apply to Penn ED, but do not sell yourself short by only applying to schools that are likely not to admit you. Your minority status will not help you at the UC’s. It may help you at some private schools depending on the stats of other URMs that year, but it isn’t going to hugely sway things in your favor. Show your mom the admissions statistics others have posted here. She is wrong, and maybe seeing the actual numbers will wake her up.</p>
<p>I would also make sure you put time into creating strong and interesting essays. Sometimes an really unique essay can outweigh many other deficiencies, such as GPA. The essay is a tool that can really help you if you do well, do nothing for you if you do mediocre, and harm you greatly if you screw it up. This is especially true at more competitive schools.</p>
<p>You need to get your mom to see reality or find a way to apply to safeties anyway. This is your college search and your life. Listen to your mom and give thought to her suggestions, but the ultimate decision is yours. Getting you school counselor involved may help.</p>