<p>@frankie38, you said that
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Positive sterotyping is not really complementary. In reality this only serves to promote the misrepresentation and misunderstanding of the diverse peoples, cultures, and socio economic circumstances of all Asian AMERICANS.
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<p>Yes I agree with you. I wasn't trying to say that the stereotypes are positive and thus acceptable, I was just making the point that the fact that they ARE positive makes people FEEL that they are more acceptable.
For example, no part of the african american community would support the stereotype that blacks are criminals. However there is a significant proportion of the asian american that believes in and tries to reinforce stereotypes about asian students.</p>
<p>@bethievt
Congratulations to your son for seeing past the predominant trends in this country. But of course you can point out exceptions and there are many many exceptions for whom HYPS and the other top research universities are not the proper place. But you must admit that these institutions are widely and internationally renowned and considered by MOST to be the best. </p>
<p>As an aside on LAC's, asians have not totally ignored liberal arts colleges. Among my high school friends, (many of whom were asian, and most of whom ended up at top universities) most of us did consider liberal arts colleges, but most of us also ended up deciding that they were not right for us. Some did end up at liberal arts colleges though. Personally I had an incredibly difficult time deciding between Swarthmore and Penn, but eventually made my decision.
Someone cited 13% or 17% i'm not sure, as the percentage of asians at Amherst, and even that is disproportionate compared to the population at large.
Another reason I think for the asian preference of name brand universities over liberal arts college is precisely the fact that it IS a name brand university. If you are conducting business in asia it is a great advantage to have been credentialed by a university that has international renown regardless of the actual quality of undergraduate education received.
There is also definitely an element of reputation to it. I know this affected my parent's thoughts on college and am quite confident it affects most parents' decisions. Most immigrant families in America have extended families still in Asia to whom they must explain where there child is going to college. Personally, my grandparents were very adamant on me going to a school that they had heard of, same with my aunts and uncles, all of whom called from China to weigh in on the topic.
A final point on asians and LACs. my parents and their friends are CONSTANTLY talking about college. College is what the talk about, I would estimate 70% of the time. And so when it came time for me to research colleges, they didn't bother looking at many brochures or websites, instead they would go to their extended network of friends and ask them about where their kids were giong to school, how they liked it etc. etc. If there was no precedent for someone's child going to a certain university, they started out biased against it. So there was definitely some community aspects in setting the range of universities which were preferable.</p>
<p>@epiphany
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I teach them one-on-one (thus also get to know their parents well), I counsel them, I advise them, I listen to them in-person (not cyber-space), I lived in one of those Asian countries, my family has continued its social relationships with Asians from that time to the present, Chinese- and Korean-American students are both daughters' best friends & I know their families & those families' friends well, daughters' school had large supply of the well-educated, ambitious, competitive version of American Asians (not necessarily more competitive than Caucasian students, but as competitive -- just more narrow in what was an "acceptable" college admission & what was not), they are a large part of our orchestra & in making orchestral scholarship decisions I get to know the families well (part of my job to do so), etc.
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That sounds wonderful. If so then how can you say this.
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Some of the aforementioned threads reinforce the "all or nothing" mentality of many of these parents, whether born here or born overseas. It's HYP/MIT/S/UCBerkeley or nothing; it's My Student Gets Admitted At All Costs (& whether or not he or she likes the school, belongs there, etc.) or nothing. Either my student has reached some fantasy "absolute" bar of qualification (doesn't exist -- everything's relative now, or hasn't anybody noticed?), or my student has been discriminated against, vs. less-worthy students of diff. ethnicities.
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Have you actually met anyone like this? Actually as bad as all that and the stereotype make appear? I highly doubt it. As I said before, few parents are as bad as they're kid's will make them out to be. For the most part it's all just a game of misery poker.
Your suggestion in post #91 is spot on though. Kudos.</p>
<p>And finally, does anyone else think the exercies done by Reider described at the end of the article is ludicrous, unfair, and spin worthy of a congressional sex scandal a month before mid-term elections?</p>