<p>I actually faced the same problem in my college search, except kind of the opposite (I was set on Swat and then fell for HC). I will try to be as fair as possible, but obviously have a bit of a bias, so keep that in mind. I am currently a Sophomore at Haverford and could not be happier.</p>
<p>First, I will say that as far as the Honor Code goes, it isn’t perfect and people do make mistakes and (I think most students feel the same way) the social honor code isn’t as pervasive as most students would like. I don’t mean to say that people are horrible to each other (one of my friends who applied ED, was denied and ended up transferring in after a few years at an equally selective NESCAC school, said that it is amazing to him how genuinely nice everyone here is), but just that there are situations in which the infrastructure of the social honor code would have been conducive to facilitating a dialogue and students, being human, act like humans. There are lots of cases, however, in which the social honor code is employed and is successful. I think the best endorsement of the honor code is that people use, “Haverfordian” and “good person” interchangeably.</p>
<p>Cheating does happen, though I imagine at about the same rate as or lower than that at other schools. There is really a culture on campus that does not condone that sort of action. The difference is that at Haverford, when cheating happens, students cheat on take home exams and, often, report themselves to honor council. Honor Council is really special because, instead of going to a dean or other administrator, an infraction of academic integrity goes to a panel of students who adjudicate a trial, and then put together an “abstract” which, with pseudonyms in the place of pronouns, is released to the community so that everyone can learn from others’ mistakes. Abstract discussions are held by members of the honor council (and jury members who are chosen for each trial) after abstracts are released.</p>
<p>As far as social life goes, Swarthmore has frats and will soon have a sorority. They do not seem particularly pervasive or exclusionary, but are still present on campus. Both have a relatively weak drinking culture with only a portion of students choosing to imbibe on a given weekend. At Haverford, no one has fake IDs because all parties are on campus and, with (to my knowledge) the only student written alcohol policy in the country, crackdowns on student drinking tends to focus on unsafe habits.</p>
<p>I cannot speak fully for Swat (someone feel free to correct me), but Haverford has very little barriers between sophomores, juniors, freshmen and seniors. Most of my friends are not within my class year and I would not consider myself to be in the minority. Part of this is down to the size of Haverford. But I also think that the amazing customs program feeds into this. The customs program is like orientation but lasts all year long and is way better. At Haverford, there are “freshman halls,” but the freshmen are anything but isolated. For each hall of 8-18(ish) freshmen, there are 8 upperclassmen who apply for very difficult to obtain positions (50%-20% acceptance depending on the position and year) as customs team members. Because of this, people naturally end up branching out to other classes. Many of my friends who do not share a class year with me were either members of my customs team or friends of customs team members. A common thing for people to say to friends is “I need to meet your freshmen.” There is no stigma attached to being a freshman; everyone just wants to be friends (that sounds corny, but its actually true). At Swat, my one experience with this was at a Tri-Co event being held on the Swat Campus in the late spring of last year, seniors were yelling “2012” proudly. This would never happen at Haverford. People just don’t have much class year pride. It’s just Haverford pride.</p>
<p>As far as social life goes, I find that Haverford students are more laid back and Swatties are more intense (you’ll here this a lot).</p>
<p>Another spot that Haverford excels is in transparency and student voice with the administration. Some students complain that students don’t literally run the school, but for the most part, the amount of power we are given is amazing. Every week, there are more committees to be filled with students – from dorm planning committee to college honors committee. Students council (elected by students) fills these spots. Sometimes the committees are a bit onerous (this has happened to me: [Quaker</a> Problems - im on a committee about committees](<a href=“quickmeme: the funniest page on the internet”>I'm on a committee about committees - Quaker Problems - quickmeme)), but they are really fun and empowering (fun fact: the painting in that meme is in our special collections, which is probably the best special collections of any liberal arts college - if you want more info on the ridiculously vast number of rare books that we have, go here: [Haverford</a> College: Library : Special Collections : Collections : Rare Books and Manuscripts](<a href=“http://www.haverford.edu/library/special/collections/rare_books_and_manuscripts/index.php]Haverford”>http://www.haverford.edu/library/special/collections/rare_books_and_manuscripts/index.php)). This really goes back to Quaker values and the importance of governance by consensus. As such, there is also plenary every year where students vote on “resolutions” (everything from changes to the honor code to composting).</p>
<p>I hope this helps. Any specific questions, feel free to ask…</p>