<p>Hi, I'm a high school senior looking for some advice. . .</p>
<p>One of the schools I applied to, a good LAC in the north, has had a rep call me a couple of times, congratulating me on my acceptance and asking if I would be able to attend their Open House/Visitation days. I mentioned (truthfully) that I wouldn't be able to afford the plane ticket (I'm from the South); yesterday the school called again and offerred to pay for the whole shebang so I could spend four days at their college. Here's my problem: I most likely won't end up enrolling at this school (bad financial aid, parents don't want me to go too far now, plus some other factors), so my parents said it wouldn't be ethical to accept the school's generous offer. I personally would love to visit the school, and know that it may just might change my mind about it (though, probably, not). I have to let them know by Monday. . .what do you think?</p>
<p>I would call this rep and say exactly what you've said here - parents concerned about finaid package and distance. Listen to what the rep says and then decide. They might (1) improve the package (2) invite the parents (not likely, I guess, but who knows) (3) address other concerns.</p>
<p>They might tell you they don't think it unethical and frequently have students in just this position come as their guests.</p>
<p>If you know that "it just might change my mind about it" there is absolutely nothing unethical about accepting their offer. The college just wants to have the chance to convince you to attend. Maybe some of the things you think will prevent you from going might change upon a visit. Congrats on your acceptance!</p>
<p>Agree with previous posters. The whole reason they are paying for you to go is so you will change your mind. Go with an open mind, and tell them your concerns.</p>
<p>Is the visit for a scholarship weekend?
If not, I agree with jmmom. Don't accept the trip until you let them know the FA puts them out of reasonable reach.</p>
<p>If the school is definitely off of your list for financial reasons, I would not make the trip. Bottom line is there is no reason to fall in love with a place where you cannot enroll. The school can then use their resources for students who will be coming to their school.</p>
<p>I guess what I'm saying is that if you are still considering this school...go. If not, don't.</p>