<p>Okay, basic rundown of the situation:</p>
<p>I'm a transfer student.
I've been accepted to six colleges. (I'm waiting on a response from a seventh, but they don't even look at transfer apps until May.)
College #1 sent me a financial aid offer almost immediately and requested a $600 deposit by May 1st if I want to go there.<br>
Most of the other colleges START sending their financial aid offers around May 1st (not that they guarantee you'll get an offer in May, it's more a "May to June" range.)</p>
<p>College #1's offer was generous, but I would still be taking out quite a bit in loans for my remaining two years of college. It would be doable, but more than I want to spend if I have significantly cheaper options. But I don't KNOW if I have cheaper options because I'm still waiting on the other FA offers. I also don't want to send in a nonrefundable deposit of $600 if I'm not going to end up at College #1. ($600 would be an ENORMOUS chunk of my savings.)</p>
<p>But then again, what if the other colleges turn out to be more expensive than College #1, right? I'd look pretty foolish turning them down and then having to pay even more. (My in-state college would almost certainly give me fantastic aid, but they're the college who doesn't admit transfer students until May/June. I THINK I will get in, but don't want to count on it.)</p>
<p>So with this in mind, I wrote College #1's FA office an e-mail, apologizing for bothering them at a busy time, but explaining that I was waiting on a gaggle of other FA offers, and could they possibly extend the deposit date to June 1st? Or extend it AT ALL? I hope it wasn't a mistake to do this, but I didn't know what else to do. I was careful to word it politely.</p>
<p>So a day later I received a reply that said, "The May 1 date is set through out the US."</p>
<p>I don't know what that means and am struggling to figure out how to even reply. I don't know if I should reply with another e-mail, try phoning them, or just give it up. (Another problem is that I get easily flustered on the phone.)</p>