dating: Why don't college kids date vs hooking up and what have we lost?

<p>It makes things much easier, wait for the right girl to have a relationship with.. but at least be good in bed when you meet her.</p>

<p>But research shows that people who are "good in bed" by the time they meet and marry the right partner (i.e. lots of previous partners) are far more likely to divorce, maybe because they have high expectations and can make comparisons, and thus become "bored" after a few years?
I'm not conservative either, but I don't think one-night stands are a good idea (for reasons mentioned above as well as health reasons)</p>

<p>^ Maybe that's an argument against marriage and not hooking up.</p>

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<p>I dunno, my girlfriend and I have had a lot of fun figuring things out on our own the past few years.</p>