<p>i remember on our first date my boyfriend said something to the effect of "wow leah, we're definitely soul mates" after i said something and it basically scared me to death..</p>
<p>Well then paintballing I think would be fun, get a taxi or something. And yes, marrying her would be another option, but then you'd have problems with trying to go on other dates with other women if you find out that you don't really like her, haha.</p>
<p>Simple is good for first dates, simple lunch/dinner is nice. I know that a date I recently went on was fun, but maybe a little too much for the second date. The guy made me dinner and we ate it in a park as a picnic. Then we went to the city and went salsa dancing (we missed the lesson so we skipped out on that early). After the sun went down we went to a park and he set up a telescope and checked out the moon while checking out the constellations. Very nice, but maybe too much. However, if you use all three of thos ideas for three dates, it might be good for you.</p>
<p>^^yeah, definitely trying too hard. the effort is cute, though, i guess.</p>
<p>It worked for Dharma & Greg.</p>
<p>What does everyone think of asking girls (or guys) via text messaging or msn messenger?</p>
<p>lame .</p>
<p>most guys don't care how a girl asks them out to be honest. As a guy i'd never ask a girl out over a text message though for the first date. And its now 2am. good lord, and i was just getting on a regular sleep schedule.</p>
<p>Yeah I guess I don't really care, but I think it say a lot about the guy when he texts/asks me out via internetz. Oh well, I'm off to college anyway, don't need to worry about boys now!</p>
<p>Catsushi text is fine. Most girls don't ask out guys so he'll probably be flattered anyways. Does the asker pays rule still apply in this case?</p>
<p>You can still have relationships at Wellesley. College is a time to try new things.</p>
<p>Anyways: Do girls usually orgasm? Who usually has the better orgasm? I always thought it was girls but after watching Road Trip I'm pretty sure its the guy.</p>
<p>Not a girl but from experience and from what girls tell me:</p>
<p>Do girls usually orgasm? Yes.
Who usually has the better orgasm? Depends. Guys are more extreme but girls have it more often and sometimes extreme for them too.</p>
<p>Different from girls to girls.
After your puzzling over this topic I only have to assume that you lack experience with girls, thus I ignore all your arguments about dating prior to this post. Only assumptions and no offense.</p>
<p>lethargytm I think you have no experience. Girls usually have better orgasms unless you do that special thing that most guys won't let girls do (the thing in Road Trip). Guys can have multiples too.</p>
<p>haha. After reading the first page of responses, it's obvious that you guys are thinking way too much. Just be yourself. I was spontaneous and weird with my girlfriend when we first met, and she liked it. We would chill at my house and then I would just say something weird like, "let's go play laser tag!" And we did, and enjoyed it. If she's too stuck up to date someone who's a little crazy, then shes not worth the time, money, or the trouble.</p>
<p>btw, im still going out with that same girl. its been over three years. so i did something right.</p>
<p>If you're basing what girls/guys experience during sex off of a movie (especially one like Roadtrip), you're in for a surprise.</p>
<p>Oh well I'll find out soon enough. and i was basing it off a lot of other well i guess you can't really call them movies now can you lol? nice.</p>
<p>I love how these people that know nothing about sex are trying to tell us about it..........</p>
<p>Keep the date simple. Do something where you can talk and have fun.</p>
<p>How about just meeting up for coffee or a small picnic in the park?</p>
<p>movies and especially pornography give men unrealistic expectations of sex</p>
<p>i.e. simultaneous orgasm? rare.</p>
<p>@Collegehopeful: In general, I wouldn't think that CC is a good source for sex ed.</p>
<p>I think that if a girl asks out a guy, and if the guy is actually interested and would have wanted to ask her out but was shy, he would at least offer to pay (if he's a gentleman). Otherwise the date would probably be equal, but I know some girls who have asked out a guy and paid for him. But it usually turns out that they keep on paying for the guy and always take the initiative when doing the asking.</p>
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Girls usually have better orgasms unless you do that special thing that most guys won't let girls do (the thing in Road Trip).
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Never saw that movie.. what is that "special thing"?</p>
<p>college youre a virgin and assuming things about sex off of forums, a comedy, and porn. You have no basis in making such assumptions, especially off of fake/simulated sex.</p>
<p>usually less intense for girls but multiples
most guys get one shot but alot more intense. you can go again after 2-15 mintues right after, and im pretty sure guys cant have multiple orgasms without ejaculating.</p>