<p>I’m a senior at Bryn Mawr and currently in the middle of my thesis, so it’s possible I’m not the best spokesperson for stress (haha) but here’s my two cents…</p>
<p>I have been stressed at Bryn Mawr, absolutely. I think if I wasn’t stressed, my parents would be concerned. As my father likes to say, “what are we taking out a second mortgage on the house for if you’re not experiencing your education to the fullest?” I think stress is an integral part of the college experience. You need to come out of your four years with more than a degree; you need to know how to handle stress, how to manage your time and your resources, how to navigate an intense workload, and how you best deal with these things in your own personal way. I wouldn’t feel prepared for my life beyond graduation if I <em>didn’t</em> know these things, and Bryn Mawr has been the perfect environment for me to do so.</p>
<p>Am I stressed to an unhealthy point? No, definitely not. I have a great social life, fantastic friends, a healthy and awesome relationship, and any time I’m feeling a little too claustrophobic in the library, it’s a five minute walk into town for sushi or Starbucks or frozen yogurt with friends. Or it’s a three minute walk to the train, where I can head into Philly for a daylong outing or a night on the town. Bryn Mawr’s location has been the reason why I can manage stress so easily. The town of Bryn Mawr is a very old-fashioned Main Street set-up where everything is walkable, so if you need anything you can easily get to it on foot. And Philly is a twenty minute train ride, so date nights, trips to the museums, shopping, and anything else you and your friends want to do is super convenient. My friend’s birthday was last weekend, and I literally went from a day in the library to a surprise party at an amazing little Italian restaurant in South Philly, then we all took a cab to University City to get the famous milkshakes at Bobby Flay’s burger joint. Best way to beat stress ever! </p>
<p>I’m happier than I’ve ever been, and I can say that without question. I definitely am one of those people who thrives on studying and reading and thinking, so Bryn Mawr was the perfect fit for me, but I also love being able to sit outside and sunbathe on the beautiful campus, or read on my balcony overlooking the pond, or watch the sunset from the porch. All of these things make me so, so, so happy. There was definitely an adjustment period where I had to learn how to manage the stress that comes with an incredible workload, but that’s necessary and (should be) a part of every college experience. I have friends at a wide range of colleges, and while I’m the one with the most work (even compared to my friends at Penn, Harvard, and Dartmouth), I would say I’m also the one who is the best at handling stress and dealing with difficult situations.</p>
<p>My family is similarly concerned about health issues, especially since I was always the kid who caught just about every disease in sight, but they’ve also learned to trust that I know how to handle my workload and that freshman year is always going to be a little bumpy for everyone - that kind of transition is intense no matter what! Now that I’m a senior, my handling of stress is an artform in which I am a master, but I was probably in the same place freshman year that your daughters are now - hard-working to a fault, driven to take five classes instead of four (and yes, I’ve done that for three semesters since junior year), favorite Disney princess as a kid was Belle because BOOKS!!!, hears “extra credit” and thinks “FANTASTIC MORE READING!” There is totally a way to have your free time - I’ve fixed my schedule so even with my English major thesis and classes, I still have my weekends, and I use them to the fullest! Even if it’s just hanging out under the cherry blossoms, Bryn Mawr makes you looooove your downtime. Being healthy and happy at Bryn Mawr isn’t just feasible, it’s pretty darn easy.</p>