Dear College Students

Please put yourself in a parent’s shoes and tell us three things you would do for your college freshman before he/she leaves for college?

  1. Offer love and support, and tell them that you are there for them if they fall.
  2. Perhaps throw a surprise (or regular) graduation party? I think those are always nice, especially if it is with friends. I always wish I had one more opportunity to celebrate with some friends before leaving.
  3. Discuss the importance of mental health and living a balanced lifestyle – grades and other things should not come above being well as a person.
  1. You can always call us when you feel homesick, or we can take you home from time to time if you don’t move too far away from us.

  2. College is not like high school at all. It’s a whole new ball game and it will take some time to get used to (the classic 1st year adjustment period)

  3. Have a balance between your school work and free time: Make sure that you study and get all of your work done so you don’t fall behind. You can still attend parties, but I advise you not to drink until you’re of age.

I’d tell him/her to read this thread: http://talk.qa.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/2016222-to-those-who-feel-lonely-homesick-friendless-think-they-chose-the-wrong-school-etc-p1.html

  1. Make sure they know how to order their own prescriptions, use an ATM, wash clothes, address a letter, write a check.
  2. Spend time with them doing fun things.
  3. Tell them to read this: http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/1920853-college-is-a-step-up-from-hs-16-tips-on-doing-well-in-college.html