Deleting people on facebook...do you get offended?

<p>I know this may seem silly, but I was just wondering if you guys get offended if someone deleted you on facebook. I know I'm going to sound really lame but I have this app on fb that lets me check who deleted me on fb...lmao...I check it every now and then. Sometimes I don't get it when someone has 206519383 friends and you're the only one they delete...It kind of hurts my feelings for a minute or two then I move on I guess...sometimes it really makes me feel like I shouldn't be so nice to everyone...and maybe I need to learn how to become more *****y :D</p>

<p>What are some are the reasons you "unfriend" people for?Would you feel offended if someone unfriended you?</p>

<p>I unfriend people when they make 934237238 annoying statuses every day about stupid crap that no one cares about, or people who just make ignorant/rude statuses. Then I ask myself why I even friended them in the first place.</p>

<p>I add everybody, so occasionally I go through and edit people out that I don’t know in real life. If I add someone and things that are offensive pop up (one guy seriously had a “news” article stating that Obama was the mastermind behind 9/11), then I delete them immediately.<br>
I always have a reason, it’s never just a random thing. </p>

<p>I have to say that I would get pretty offended if someone I knew well or was friends with deleted me.</p>

<p>I don’t really care if I don’t talk to them or know them in real life. Also like stated above if I don’t know or like them then I delete them, though I occasionally delete someone for spamming me with invites to whatever…I hate that.</p>

<p>I usually don’t add random people. There’s usually a reason why I add people: I know them well, they are in the same activities, etc. So, when I add someone on accident that I have no clue who they are, I know I’ll never actually meet them, and I rarely interact with them even on facebook I delete them. There aren’t many, so it is usually just one or two…but I always feel awkward deleting them. D: What if they are offended?</p>

<p>I was actually just thinking of this today because I hadn’t seen this girl’s posts on Facebook for a while and I searched for her; as it turns out, out she had defriended me! </p>

<p>For me it kind of sucks for a moment or two and then I get over it; usually when I am defriended it is by people that I haven’t spoken to for a long time so it’s not that big of a deal. I also know a lot of people who go through their friends list on a semi annual or so basis and just purge people they don’t talk to anymore. So I try not to take it personally, but sometimes I still wonder “Was I that annoying to make them delete me?” haha</p>

<p>The people I realized have deleted me are like oooooooooolllllddd friends. It kinda bothers me for a minute but then you realize that people have to move on. I’ll never talk to them anyways…</p>

<p>Whenever I get deleted by someone else I get furious. I feel like opening up the yellow pages, going to their front door, banging on it and yelling “Open up! You know who it is! How dare you delete me from Facebook?!”</p>

<p>Things like that don’t bother me. You really shouldn’t care about the approval of others… Or maybe its just me</p>

<p>When I notice they deleted me, I can generally understand why.</p>

<p>I totally enjoy the voyeuristic aspect of Facebook. Even if I don’t communicate with everyone all the time, I do enjoy reading about what’s going on in their lives. When someone deletes me I always feel a bit weird… Why bother deleting anyone?</p>

<p>My friend-girl deleted me from facebook once, and the next day I was like, “******, how dare you?” She added me back that night. But other than that, none of my real-life-friends have deleted me so far (I hope).</p>

<p>I never delete people nor ignore friend requests. Rather, I set up for groups of friends: Friends, Elders, Strangers, and ******es. I just do privacy, settings, etc according to them.</p>

<p>I usually unfriend people who I find REALLY ANNOYING!</p>

<p>If someone is totally obnoxious I’ll delete them, or if I barely know them but they like all my statuses or something. If they just post a lot I just hide them.</p>

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<p>I’m the same way! I recently checked up on an old friend of mine only to find that she deleted me. It’s not like a SUPER old friend either; I slept over her house two years ago. Even though we haven’t seen each other I was kinda offended when I saw that she deleted me, especially since she is still FB friends with tons of people. Idk why she bothered to delete me, but I realized it’s best to just get over it and move on.</p>

<p>If you block them, they don’t know you even exist. Works the other way around too, you don’t even know they exist.</p>

<p>I usually unfriend people when they do not use their real name on fb. For instance, there was this guy who changed his fb name to Indestructible (insert surname)</p>

<p>…unfriended,ASAP!</p>

<p>No I don’t get offended because I usually defriend people I haven’t talked to in a while. Like at my high school everyone knows everyone so I always have a ton of freshmen friend requesting me and I’ll add them just to be nice. But if a couple of months go by and we still have never even talked, I’ll delete them.</p>

<p>I would get offended, it’s not like it’s hurting them by having someone they don’t talk to much on their friend’s list. As long as the person doesn’t make outrageous comments then I think it’s kinda rude. But I have script that tells me who defriends me on Facebook, but most likely you won’t even notice you’ve been removed.</p>

<p>I could see where someone could get offended, but frankly, I don’t know that I want to be friends with a bunch of people who I don’t even talk to. What’s the point?
I’d rather just friend people on Facebook who I actually would talk to in some form.</p>