Does looks matter in relationships?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>So what term involves lust?</p>

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<p>^Attraction. Could be further specified as sexual attraction.</p>

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<p>Now it makes sense.</p>

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<p>seriously, i tried to “date” someone really overweight (like I think 60-100 pounds). he really was unattractive to me despite how well he got along but i didn’t want to be shallow and reject him. i “broke up” with him 2 weeks later but i don’t consider what we had a relationship at all. you have to be honest w/ yourself. it doesn’t matter if no one else thinks your bf/gf/crush is attractive as long as you do. but if you don’t think someone is, don’t make a false start. i learned that the hard way.</p>

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<p>I think that looks matter somewhat. I mean, you can’t hate to look at someone because they look ugly. But it shouldn’t matter what other people think, only that each person in the relationship thinks that the other is attractive. My philosophy is to focus on the positive. Maybe a guy has a weird neck, but he also has stunning blue eyes and rockin’ biceps.</p>

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<p>honestly it really depends. As long as the guy looks decent, has a good personality and isn’t a creep i would give him a chance.</p>

<p>Although I might have to be careful to who I’m nice to though…this year there was this one REALLY, REALLY obese senior guy that was a a student aid for one of my gym classes and he’d always try to talk to everyone…i don’t think he even had friends…I’m nice to everyone so I think he took my nice-ness the wrong way so he found my facebook and number and wouldn’t stop texting me “can we hang out, i’ll drive you around…”----that guy is a major CREEP no joke. One of my friends told me he tried to kill his parents so HELL NO would ever get into a car with him. He was also EXTREMELY unattractive This guy—> <a href=“http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v192/192/89/1130590586/n1130590586_5755_1531.jpg[/url]”>http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v192/192/89/1130590586/n1130590586_5755_1531.jpg&lt;/a&gt; so …no thanks…and he tried kissing my hand once so his old man moves turned me off even more…gross!</p>

<p>I even had one of my friends tell him off…so thankfully that worked. Everyone knew he was a creep (too bad i only found this out after). After the incident he would still always say " hi[insert my name here]" in the creepiest tone.</p>

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<p>You just pasted one of his Facebook pictures online, so I wouldn’t use the word “creep” too lightly when describing other people, no offense or anything hahaha</p>

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<p>^ wait, so are you trying to imply that I’m a creep…? Now i feel guilty about posting that :/</p>