<p>Do you think looks should matter in relationships?
Is it ok to reject someone because they are unattractive to you?</p>
<p>^yes of course. Welcome to the process of natural selection dude! Saying looks isn’t okay in a relationship is like saying evolution never occurred.</p>
<p>Listen, if you don’t feel the urge to bang them, the relationship will NEVER work. Personality is important, but you can’t have (romantic) love without lust.</p>
<p>Don’t you mean do looks?</p>
<p>Anyways, yes it does, a lot.</p>
<p>@ApathethicLove</p>
<p>Some people are married and they never have intercourse.</p>
<p>@Porkperson, English isn’t my first language lol.</p>
<p>Marriage /=/ Love</p>
<p>Besides, I specified romantic love. You can have platonic love without lust, but that’s generally not what one is looking for in a relationship. If you just want a really close friend, then go for it…hell, you can even have more than one really close friend :)</p>
<p>“Some people are married and they never have intercourse.” -> Perhaps post-marital sex is not as non-controversial as I [had</a> thought](<a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/919161-postmarital-sex.html]had”>Postmarital Sex - High School Life - College Confidential Forums).</p>
<p>^EW OLD PEOPLE SEX, I don’t think people should be allowed to make the beast with two back aches/turn raisins into whine after about age 50.</p>
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<p>No, but grammar do.</p>
<p>@starfruit, that hurt…</p>
<p>Yes, looks do matter in a relationship. Think about it. If you don’t show that you can take care of yourself why should that signifigant other believe you can take care of them. Personality and Common Interests matter just as much as looks, though. Relationships based on looks never truly work out. If your worried that you are not “attractive” enough don’t worry to much. As long as you can keep up with decent hygiene, looks, and personality you will be fine. Trust Me, the right one will come when you are least expecting it.</p>
<p>Best Of Luck :)</p>
<p>Does grammar matter in sentences?</p>
<p>Anyway, looks do matter in a relationship.</p>
<p>If you really like somebody I’m either guessing something else about them makes their looks better or you think they look great. This doesn’t neccesarily mean they actual look really good, it just means they’re attractive in your eyes. Maybe this really hot guy/girl you fantasize about looks plain to everybody else.</p>
<p>^this.</p>
<p>Actually, I don’t think you need to be like “omg you’re so pretty I wanna stare at you ALL day” but it seems pretty pointless if one person thinks the other is ugly or something. But I suppose there has to be some level of physical attraction.</p>
<p>Durrr. Even babies are differentiate between pretty people and ugly people. Well… mostly on the basis of symmetry. But even they figure that a person with good looks is more genetically standardized and thus more likely to survive. It’s instinctual. You make a decision on whether a person is good looking or not faster than you can blink (literally)</p>
<p>But looks become less important in any relationship the longer you get to know them.</p>
<p>I’m going to +1 to hanana’s answer as well.</p>
<p>Yes looks do matter. You need physical and emotional attraction to a person. If you’re not attracted to your girl/boy then it’s probably not going to work out. </p>
<p>HOWEVER, like hanana said, if you love someone then you are probably attracted to them already. If your personalities click, then you are probably going to be physically attracted to them for more than simply physical reasons.</p>
<p>You should have put that english wasnt your first language in your first post</p>
<p>I suppose it depends on the people involved. There are some people who genuinely don’t care. </p>
<p>For me, however, looks are a must. I can’t be in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to.</p>