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of course not! every girl wants the exact opposite...
a guy who can't hold an intelligent conversation and is so ridiculously whipped that he will agree to every word that comes out of her mouth and fulfill her every wish/command. Boyfriends should be servants with benefits.

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Damn straight she does, but as soon as she meets a guy who dissents to her attitude and defects to someone else, she will want him even more.</p>

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man<em>on</em>fire: what an immature thing to say...and to tell you, a lot of girls like a guy to also be able to be like a best friend to her in addition to being a boyfriend...</p>

<p>my god...i wonder how many girls you've gotten with that attitude...

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I can tell you've never been in a real relationship. Please forgive my machosistic attitude however...hehehe...</p>

<p>man<em>on</em>fire: yea, haha...why do guys make fun of ppl when we make smart comments...and actually, no, i havent had a real relationship...they've all sucked! </p>

<p>yea, sure.</p>

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Damn straight she does, but as soon as she meets a guy who dissents to her attitude and defects to someone else, she will want him even more.

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<p>haha...absolutely not.
As soon as he dissents to this attitude, she throws him away like the broken toy that he is and gets a new one. Guys are in reality nothing but sex objects anyway - completely unnecessary pieces of luxury.</p>

<p>(bigotry can work the other way around too, you know)</p>

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haha...absolutely not.
As soon as he dissents to this attitude, she throws him away like the broken toy that he is and gets a new one. Guys are in reality nothing but sex objects anyway - completely unnecessary pieces of luxury.</p>

<p>(bigotry can work the other way around too, you know)

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Hahaha Lady In Red, I doubt you would actually have the guts to treat a guy like that. Face it, girls just get too emotionally attached...;)</p>

<p>Edit: I wouldn't mind being a sex toy though, I would probably like that better. You win I guess...</p>

<p>LadyinRed - theyre only sex objects when they look good ;)</p>

<p>Please tell me that neither of you girls are Indian or Chinese.</p>

<p>Definitely not.</p>

<p>Compliment her more on her sense of humor and personality than on looks. Looks, you could just be saying anything or even lying in an attempt to gain points, but if you say something about personality it's more special and unique and it ends up being kind of touching, because people rarely comment on things like that to a girl, and it means you really know her.</p>

<p>Eh...soccerfanatic...i think it depends on what kinda girl you are. Cause I mean, I get complimented on my personality all the time. Maybe guys should just find the things that are least attractive about a girl and compliment those, even if they're lying. cause i know i would like that. I remember one guy complimented my legs and i was SHOCKED cause i am real short and stocky but it is one of the nicest compliments Ive ever gotten, including all of the ones about my intelligence and humor.</p>

<p>I wouldn't say the things that are least attractive, because I'd really rather not be lied to...but the things that she's self-conscious about, sometimes for no reason. For a girl everyone calls "smart", it'll probably be her looks. For a girl everyone thinks is "pretty", it might be her intelligence. It really depends on the person.</p>

<p>Don't complimment a girl on her personality too much....</p>

<p>She might interpret it as "you have a great personality....but...that's about it"</p>

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Hahaha Lady In Red, I doubt you would actually have the guts to treat a guy like that. Face it, girls just get too emotionally attached...</p>

<p>Edit: I wouldn't mind being a sex toy though, I would probably like that better. You win I guess...

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I was being sarcastic.</p>

<p>God, it is beyond ignorant to say something like that (re: I wouldn't mind being a sex toy). It's a complete disrespect for those who are victimized - but it figures, because apparently you think girls like arrogant jerks. There's a reason domestic abusers and rapists exist.</p>

<p>out of curiosity, why would you have a problem with one of us (Moni or I) being Indian or Chinese?</p>

<p>As a professional b itchmonger I can info'm y'all niggaz dat when it comes to pimpin hoes ya either gots it or ya ain't, a true playa be bo'n wit dem skillz, yo. Keepin' a hoe ain't no thang either, all ya gots ta do is slap dat s h i t every now and then keep tha words "B i tch, where mah money at, don't make me have to make yo' sorry ass ugleh now,ho!" ringin' in dey ears.</p>

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out of curiosity, why would you have a problem with one of us (Moni or I) being Indian or Chinese?

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No, not really, considering I'm an Indian male. It's interesting because most Asian girl I know don't talk like that but you were just being sarcastic I guess, which sucks. ;)</p>

<p>lol..most Asian girls have very conservative values, I suppose.
I talk like that all the time, usually in a joking manner, though.
I think you're right, I probably don't have the guts to actually act like that; not because I'm too emotionally attached but because I don't really believe in treating people like animals...</p>