<p>hi all . . . In less than 24 hours with the input and help of you all, I feel as though I’ve gained perspective and am able to piece together the puzzle a bit better, thus have gotten peace, ready to move on!!! </p>
<p>Ultimately, I know the selection process is not a science, naively I suppose I thought it was a bit more empirically merit based than it was/ is. </p>
<p>(@mom2collegekids … you are very astute, wish we had known about NMF-bye with illness about 1.5 years ago-)</p>
<p>For others of you that come across this post in future looking for answers, perhaps finding yourself in a similar “dumbfounded” predicament - I will address a couple of more recent post querries:</p>
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<li><p>My D has not been “accepted” - I assume unoffficially deferred to March pool, and yes, still potentially in play for smaller scholarships … but I will not hold my breath</p></li>
<li><p>Having spoken with D last evening, she shared that of the top-5% students who applied to SC most also did not qualify for the preliminary scholarships; of her HS’s large 700-student senior class, initial impressions indicate that only 3 kids received scholarship offers (likely there are a few more)- Two of whom have similar GPA/SAT/Course Rigor/EC’s … very very good students (D’s friend, and another) - and one truly stellar student, an amazing girl, with top-notch GPA/test scores/ EC’s who is the conductor of the school’s 360-person marching band, etc </p></li>
<li><p>My D’s friend (and my D) both wrote essays without tutors; when asked, my D’s friend said she thinks she wrote one essay about her interest in business; and the other about she and her brother being first in family to attend college… but she’s not sure </p></li>
<li><p>In terms of displayed interest in USC<br>
… my daughter not only attended an all day campus tour (which she referenced on app somewhere), but also another 1/2 day one with her friend- Daughter also corresponded with Dornslife admin. to follow-up on the majors (inquired about the new major that combines Philosophy/ Poly Sci and Law as it was not yet in printed information) … my D looked into clubs specific to SC and referenced in her app- Finally, D arranged an interview - the alumni in our area was fully booked early so we drove So.Cal (5+ hours one way) there and back in one day- to attend the alternative campus-interview. D tends to interview well, no major gaffs reported … they spoke mostly about her ECs and hobbies. The interviewer told her she normally processes only international candidates and spoke english as a second language… not sure if she was even an interviewer normally, or just admin, so … i don’t know if that was best case scenario . </p></li>
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<p>My daughter’s friend took a tour, but hadn’t contacted USC subsequently nor, interviewed. </p>
<p>This past Sunday/Monday evening when D’s friend came home to find a special delivery packet from USC she didn’t open it explaining that she was tired and would do it the next day … then hadn’t opened it even the next morning … wasn’t until ariving at school when her friends told her what a big deal it was, and what was likely in it, that she texted her mom to open and read it. … she then told my daughter " I have to LA for some kind of interview" … to which my dtr said “OMG, you mean you get to …” </p>
<p>At this point, it appears that my D’s friend is leaning toward attending one of our state’s best State Universities to which she was admitted ED, over USC w/ scholarship.</p>
<p>ce la vie</p>