I do not believe that any child should feel pressure to apply early decision. It is a big decision that should be made only when a student is ready. If a child is not confident that a college is right for him/her, it is better to wait and apply only early action or rolling or regular decision.
But for those who are ready, and for whom the EFC is reasonable, ED confers a great advantage… and tremendous relief if you get in! After my own child’s experience and those of his friends and my colleagues’ students this last cycle, I am a big believer in ED.
Below, I will offer counterarguments to some made on this thread.
A. The Too-Young-to-Commit Argument Against ED:
I do not understand this argument. If you don’t commit on November 1st, you are still going to have to commit somewhere by May 1st. Yeah, sure, kids mature a bit in those six months… but so much so that they will become so much more decisive by then that it is worth giving up a major admissions advantage?
B. The Money Argument Against ED:
At need-blind, meets-full-demonstrated-need colleges, applying early decision will give you the same aid package as applying RD, and these colleges are among the nation’s most generous. I heard that some kids on the GroupMe for students admitted early decision to Williams last year spoke about what a relief their aid package was; they needed substantial aid, and they got it. Many of the kids admitted RD were also talking about the aid as a factor in why they were choosing to go there at admitted days and new student orientation. I also heard similar tales from colleagues’ children who were admitted to other colleges early decision with aid; e.g., a colleague of mine, a teacher with two children, entered the ED process with trepidation that her daughter would get into her dream college but be unable to attend, and was ecstatic when the aid offer arrived and surpassed her expectations. Well-endowed colleges give good aid.
Yes, a full-pay or needs-very-little-aid student might get more money through merit aid packages than through what a needs-only/no-merit college will give them. But if you would turn down a generous merit package at your tenth choice to attend your top choice with a smaller amount of aid anyway, why not apply early decision and increase your chances at your top choice?
C. The Only One Dream College or Possible Regrets Argument Against ED:
I disagree that one should only apply ED if you have a clear top choice. I think it is a bad idea to think about any college, “This is the only place I could be happy.” In fact, I think anyone applying early decision to one college should simultaneously apply early action to one or more safer choices, and work to keep their psychological approach to the application process as, “I will be happy if I get into my ED school, but I also could be happy at any of the colleges to which I am applying, and I am not committing my heart until a college commits to me.”
You do not need to prefer your ED college to all others. You just need to have the type of personality that is optimistic and does not dwell on what-ifs or woulda/coulda/shoulda thinking. Apply ED if you are ready to be happy at the ED college if it accepts you, and never look back.