I’m currently having a dilemma regarding whether I should ED or RD for Upenn Wharton.
All my application materials are ready, but I can’t make a decision as to whether I should ED or not.
For some context, I am not a legacy nor am I an athlete. My demographics are Indian-American female from California, and my family income is upper-middle class. My parents will be paying for my college, however, my family is at the point where they can’t easily afford Penn (the NPC estimate is very pricy for us, but if they really sacrificed a lot, they would be able to cover it.) I am very grateful for this, but it’s hard for me to ask them to contribute so much for me, even if it’s for my higher education. They have already done so much, and I feel guilty asking them to pay this huge sum of money.
I have heard from others that you should ED only if you can 1. comfortably afford it (even if the fin-aid package is above the NPC) 2. its your top choice.
For me personally, USC Marshall is my more “realistic” dream school, as I would love to stay close to home while also attending a top business school. Wharton is pretty much the only school I would consider going out of state for, but even then I would feel hesitant to sign a binding contract with the school. I do really like the school (based on YT vlogs I’ve been binging LOL) and its programs, as well as the leg-up it provides me with professionally. My stats are somewhat within Wharton’s range & I put a lot of care into my ECs, so it’s not extremely unlikely that I may get in. But judging from my school’s history (public school), no one has ever gotten into Penn before (we had Stanford and Cornell last year, but other than that mostly top UCs).
I do really like Wharton, but I’ve heard that it has a very stressful/cutthroat environment, and I personally value my overall happiness and time with my family more. At the same time though, it’s WHARTON and probably something I may regret not ED-ing to in the future. How much of an advantage would applying as ED give to me? And is it worth all of these other things I have to consider? Or should I just apply RD (hoping my chances wouldn’t be greatly impacted) and hope for the best?
I have to apply as soon as possible, so please let me know your thoughts on this, I would really really appreciate it <3