<p>Matt,
I don't think one is better than the other but clearly different options. From everything you have written, it seems that you are understandably not ready to commit to a certain specialized program of study like you would have to do by applying directly to a program at NYU for example. Since you seem to be ruling out applying to the music business programs directly, I see Wharton as being aligned with that same idea. It is also a program you must commit to and apply directly to. It is not a liberal arts degree. Of course, at Wharton or even at NYU, you still can take liberal arts courses. But you are commiting to a certain program of study NOW at the application stage. That, to me, is one of the big differences in your choices. Based on what I know about you, applying to a place like Brown, would allow you to sample your various interests and even piece together your own major if need be. You would have many opportunities to take what you want. It is also a school with a very active arts community. You could do internships in this field, if you want to explore it further. In any case, it seems to fit what you seem to want given that you are not absolutely certain of your major (and most 17 year olds are not) and you only came to this specific one very recently (and it could change!). You can always go to grad school for business. </p>
<p>I also would hesitate to apply ED to either school since you don't feel certain of your first choice. ED really is for when one school truly stands out as your most favorite of all. I encourage you to return to these choices for a more in depth look, including an overnight, and talking with professors and students which will help you with your decision. </p>
<p>The schools differ in other ways. I know both schools as my D got into both schools. She is at Brown. However, Penn is a wonderful school as well. Penn is much bigger than Brown. Penn has a more urban feel to it than Brown, though Brown is in walking distance to downtown/urban. Brown has the open curriculum, Penn does not. It really has more to do with what YOU want in a school. Both schools are great but one likely fits you better than the other. Only YOU can figure that out. I only say Brown because it seems to fit your preferences/needs from what I know about you. Also theater is big there and I know you are very into theater and you could be active in producing or directing the student run musicals, for example. Radio is very good at Brown too. Individualized study is well supported. The options might be more flexible there for you than at Wharton and it seems to me that you need that flexibility right now as your career interests are evolving and changing, from what I know about you or have read in your posts over time. </p>
<p>If you wish to do an overnight at Brown, contact me as my D would be happy to help you. She could connect you with kids in theater there too. Music is popular at Brown, and particularly the a capella scene. </p>
<p>What really makes me say Brown to YOU is that you are not that interested in schools like NYU because you say you prefer liberal arts over music conservatories (like Steinhardt's program) and so I would correlate that to picking liberal arts over business school for the same reason. I don't say that to everyone but merely to you based on your interests as stated.
Susan</p>
<p>PS...please do not feel you must apply ED to a school. It may not be the best choice for you. Your preferences might change/evolve as the school year progresses. Believe me, plenty of kids get into these schools in RD too. My kid did and lots others as well.</p>