Emailing Admissions

Colleges and Universities A-Z University of Pennsylvania
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Okay heres my situation: I applied to UPenn and a friend from the same school did as well. My first choice is Bryn Mawr and hers is UPenn.

So in a perfect world, I would go to BMC and she would go to UPenn. But if I dont get in to Bryn Mawr, I wouldnt be against UPenn.

I am very tempted to contact admissions. “Look, if its between me and x, please admit her” but I dont want to cancel my application alltogether.

Is there a way to do this? I do understand its a amazing school but I would feel like ---- if I get in and my friend doesnt.

So… what do I do?

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Do not do anything. First of all, Penn is very hard to get in. The chance for either of you is not high (just like anyone else). Secondly, The spot is not between you and your friend. Even if you get in and drop out, There is no guarantee that your friend will get the spot. You have no control of it either.

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Cool. Thanks, f2000sa. I guess I’m “afraid” that I am a stronger applicant? I know that sounds silly but I’m more nervous for her than myself. Shes so brilliant…

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It is a very kind and considerate thought but don’t do it.

  1. It will almost guaranty you don’t get in.
  2. It will have zero impact on your friend’s decision.
  3. It will make your friend appear desperate.