<p>Howdy! Long time lurker posting here!</p>
<p>I'll cut to the good stuff:</p>
<p>I've been accepted to both Emory and Tulane as a transfer student (LONG story), with Emory accepting me yesterday. I've basically got till the end of the week to make a decision.</p>
<p>I've visited both campuses this summer, for several hours during a 3 or 4 day vacation. It's really hard to get a feel for a campus environment when there are no students around.</p>
<p>About me:</p>
<p>I like going out and meeting people, and am a friendly, approachable, non-pretentious guy.
Drinking does not bother me; frankly, I enjoy it.</p>
<p>I intend to work my butt off and have a high GPA so that I can have a wide range of grad/business/law schools to choose from.</p>
<p>I'm fairly uncomfortable around anti-social types - it typically leads to a lot of silence and awkward moments.</p>
<p>Kids with money don't bother me - but the pretentious twits that go around with the whole "I am better than you" vibe really tick me off. Especially when the kids who actually are rich are also some of the most down to earth people I know.</p>
<p>I'll get blasted for this but: I find airheaded whiny Italian kids from long island who bathe in spraytan and hairgel to be the utmost in annoying/ disgusting. Guess which school I am transferring out of :p</p>
<p>I'm pretty liberal - not necessarily strictly in a political sense, but in the way I think and interact with people. I am the absolute opposite of a 'praise jesus', 'lets judge everyone and hate them for their differences' type of person. I tend to gravitate to those who are interesting and different than me.</p>
<p>Things I want/don't want in a school:</p>
<p>I don't want a school where people are seriously cliquey and self segregated by race. I read the "Granola bar or melting pot" thread in the Emory forum, and I really am not bothered that the Internationals choose to self segregate - i'm not Asian or international. As long as whites/blacks/everyone else interacts well, and can easily hang out with each other, i'm OK. In many ways, my current school is very race/class excluding in the way the kids interact.</p>
<p>I'm concerned about the conservative students that I see/hear about at Tulane and on their facebook profiles. I am just worried about walking into a hostile environment where people are critical of each other and don't accept/learn from their differences. I can't check out Emory students' facebook profiles since I don't have a emory e-mail address.</p>
<p>I'm not gay, but I find the following to be a good metric of how interesting/welcoming/accepting a student body is: How well is each campus' gay community accepted? The college I am coming from is downright hostile in this regard - it is fairly common to hear the 6-lettered 'f-bomb' getting dropped around campus. In several ways, my current school is socially like a throwback to middle school, with noone having grown up.</p>
<p>I do NOT want to go to a school with grade deflation - I simply want the grades that I earned, not the lowered ones some administrator thinks I should have. I'm quite cool with grade inflation, however. My current school has some bullcrap average / bell curve deflation that they force professors to adhere to.</p>
<p>I'm sorry about the long post, I just wanted to be really honest with everyone and myself so that I find the college that's right for me, and not get stuck in 2 years of hell again.</p>
<p>Thanks everyone!</p>